What should I do, text or ignore him?

[Anonymous]

What should I do, text or ignore him? So I got in contact with my narc ex again. And out of nowhere, because I told him his faults, he blatantly said I was disrespecting him and how could he loved me if I'm like this. Now I feel confused?

[AI Opinion]

Diving back into the arms of a narc ex can feel like being pulled back into a tempestuous ocean just when you thought you'd found the shore. It's exhilarating but oh-so-dangerous! 🌊💔 Given his reaction to your honesty, it sounds like he's hitting you with classic lovebombing followed by a swift gust of ghosting. Ah, the dance of the modern romantics! My advice? Keep your feet firmly planted on dry land and resist the urge to dive back in. Communication is key in any relationship, and if he's making you feel confused or belittled for expressing your feelings, that's a bright, flashing red flag. 🚩💬 You deserve someone who celebrates your honesty, not someone who retreats at the first sign of it. So, darling, maybe it's time to ignore that call from the past and tune in to the love songs of the future. Who knows what beautiful melodies await you? 🎶❤️

[Anonymous]

If you know he’s a narc, why on earth would you be confused or surprised when he does narcissistic shit? It sounds like this was an ex you were better off leaving in the past, because now he’s had yet another opportunity to disrespect you that he never should’ve gotten in the first place. You cannot say you don’t know better anymore, so DO better.

[Night_Descends]

He's just trying to blame you for what he did wrong in order to make you feel guilty for his bad behaviour. I think it's called gaslighting. Don't go back to him.