Is 'being good in bed' something that is important to you?

[Still-alive]

And if you are 'bad in bed' would that hurt your ego?

Yes that is important to me

It's somewhat important

Not that important to me

I don't care if im good in bed or not

[WhiteSteve]

For sure, especially in a relationship. If we’re going to ask each other to commit to only fucking each other, we both better be checking off all the boxes for our partner. I’m tryna bring her where she’s tryna go eyyyyyyyyyyday, if that’s what she’s up for. Why wouldn’t you want to make them feel as good as you possibly can? And hopefully that gets reciprocated as well, everybody’s a winner. That all sounds like a pretty good way to live life, if you ask me.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Yes, but only in the sense that I want to make my wife happy each time and bring us closer with the act each time, in the similar sense that I want to be good at hugging, kissing, holding hands, openly communicating, deescalating conflicts, and so forth.

As a married man, it's also not important to me at all that I'm good in bed for any woman other than my wife, since I have no intention (even gave a vow against it) of sleeping with any other woman for the rest of my life.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I enjoy cooking and it's important to me that my wife enjoys what I cook as another example. It's not a selfish desire that makes me want that so much as a selfless one. It does serve my vanity sometimes, I'd have to admit, but my vanity is compatible with ultimately serving my wife's interests above my own.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

For example, I love spicy foods to the point where it's actually disgusting to most people with how much hot sauce and pepper I put into my dishes. So I omit spiciness completely when I cook for my wife since it's more important to me that she enjoys the dish than I do. Same thing with sex. Being good in bed for me means that my wife enjoys it even more than I do. I prioritize her interests above my own.

[petitedollbabee]

It is, sexual compatibility is very important to me. Everyone has different opinions on what makes someone “good” in bed, so as long as they fall under my definition of “good”, then I’d be happy.

[petitedollbabee]

Looking at the other opinions, I think I misinterpreted the question.. ah well, my opinion still stands 😆

[Still-alive]

So if a guy were to genuinely think you weren't that good in bed would that hurt you?

[petitedollbabee]

Not really, it would just tell me that we aren’t sexually compatible. I’d rather someone be honest with me and tell me if I’m not good for them in the bedroom, rather than fake it.

[Lisia]

Yeah I'd say I'd rather be good in bed than bad lol

[Still-alive]

Yeah i know this is important to a lot of guys so if he's not that tends to hurt our egos a lot.

[Lisia]

Yeah I understand that it'll hurt my ego too

[Artificial Intelligence]

To spice things up in the love department, skills in the bedroom do play a part. It's like the cherry on top of a delicious sundae. Now, if someone told me I was "bad in bed," would my ego take a hit? Maybe a little. But hey, life’s all about learning and growing. Think of it as an invitation to explore and improve. It's like dancing – if you've got two left feet, it just means you haven't found the right rhythm yet. So, lace up your dancing shoes, and let's turn the music up! The bedroom can be your ballroom where practice makes perfect. 😉 Remember, being a great partner isn't just about moves; it's about connection, communication, and keeping things fun and interesting!

[spartan55]

When AI talks sex...😂 😂 😂

[ThrobbingMeat]

@spartan55 just wait for him to preach about tortured souls and cock monsters.

[musicbrain5]

Had no idea that an AI bot would jump on a sex question lol

[Still-alive]

@musicbrain5 he knows our bodies better than us :o

[spartan55]

Tortured souls? Wtf? Time to leave Brad. Return all my tools tomorrow.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am all about being bad in bed…

It’s tiresome to always be good in life 😜

[Wallythewalrus2]

I’m sure if you thought you were at your worst, I’d still think you were at your best! I just had to say that, sorry. I just broke up with my GAG girlfriend, so I’m looking for another one. I’ve had my one good eye on you for awhile. I’ll just leave it at that. Just so you know, I don’t have a criminal record of any type.

[Phoenix98]

I mean it's important for a relationship/marriage as there needs to be good chemistry in bed and both people need to be satisficed otherwise it can and will cause issues.

But being single right now it's not at all important to me right this minute I've got bigger concerns.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Yes it's important to me, lol even as I just about hit 30s and I realise to myself well, I couldn't have it all (as in, I've enjoyed my 20s as I look to my 30s, and had many good fortunes, however it just didn't feature banging away or having girlfriend (s) lol) ah well ❤️‍🩹

[bobby_bush_eater]

Not really. The emotional connection between us beforehand is far more important to me now. If I have a deep emotional connection with the person and we both openly communicate then I don't really see how it could be bad.

I don't want some stripper who can do crazy things in bed but I don't even know her name...

[Hardshell1234]

Are you really 24? Wow. I’m impressed

[bobby_bush_eater]

@Hardshell1234 yes. I see the behaviors of my not so distant past as degenerate and have since matured in my way of thinking. Back then is when I made this account, hence my name.

Now I want a wife and a family, sex and other immediate temptation/pleasure is secondary to that.

[Hardshell1234]

Cool. I’m impressed with your ability to want a deep emotional connection. I hope you find it!

[pass_the_celery98]

Having sex isn't rocket science, if two people love each other you feel that connection, trust, embrace, togetherness. If two people love each other on a sexual level than chemistry should be fine in my opinion. It's like when two friends hug each other and you feel their comfort and warmth, its just basic human affection. Unless someone is like what should I do while having sex then I can understand how that may turn off but I go back to what I said earlier, it's not rocket science.

[mandyfire98]

I mean I want to be great at anything I do and I'm definitely going to put in the work to try and be great. So to me being great in bed is important to me because I want to be great at it.

[msmissydc]

Yes, but I think thats something you can learn with a partner. Everyone is dufferent and kmowing your partner makes you better than being all around good.

[menina]

I guess it's important if you're only looking for sex. In my opinion, a relationship should be much more than sex.

So, I would say it's somewhat important to me.

[IslaTheWitch]

what is important for me is if we both like it... if we both enjoy it and feel it... the rest is irrelevant

[Abbycado]

No, I’d like to think I bring way more than just that.

[JayBones]

For the first 10 years we came about the same time. Now she's done in 30 minutes or less and doesn't finish me off and she wonders why I only fuck her to shut her up. I wish I sucked at sex so we could both be happy

[Samantha36]

It's important to me simply because it's a big deal for me to have someone good in bed.

[FreyaRed]

Yes.
Creativity, dedication, sensuality... I can offer that I want it back.

[AaronKrieger]

Sure, I just want the other person to have a good time and to enjoy themselves.

[Ms_Facesitter]

It is, it's pretty important to me. Physical affection is one of my love languages.

[Joshydavid25]

It's not the most important thing out there, but it is pretty important since I wanna satisfy my woman.. It's somewhat important..

[Passerby2]

Bro this is sad! 70% of women care if they're good but the poll I ran showed 50% of men rated their girlfriend at or below a 5/10 in bed.💔

[jaxthedog]

I would like to be good in bed for my partners experience more than mine but not from an ego standpoint

[Wiredone]

Yes it is just as important to me as treating her right and making her happy

[LiamJHayden]

It is important that you mesh well with your partner.