Girls, what makes guys good in bed? Guys, what makes girls good in bed?

[Craigie]

For guys and girls, what does the opposite sex need to do in bed for they to be considered 'good'?

[BrighteyedAsh]

Bottom line, passion and attraction really matter! And variation. Before I ever kissed my boyfriend... it was just there. When he asked if he could kiss me I was all too willing and it was every bit as good as either of us could have hoped. Now we can be soft and sweet or hot and heavy but it's the passion that's there every time. I think really it's about both really being able to lose yourself in the pleasure and let go.

Forget trying to do tricks and gimmicks to be 'good'... just get into it! Explore her feverishly, kiss her, nibble her, grab her hair, bite her ears, lick her thighs. And just... go with it and silently take note of every touch that makes her twitch, sigh, or moan.

[Craigie]

Sounds awesome, what is it that really gets you tips you over the edge?

[Warmapplecrumble]

Well lol :-D here are few points:

He can last long maybe at least 30 minutes
He has the correct rhythm to give orgasms through penetration alone
When the vagina is dry he does foreplay
Moans during sex and shows he's enjoying it too
Changes positions to make things exciting
Can be dominant when needed
Can be loving when needed
Lots of affection maybe compliments or kisses, strokes - showing his love
Cuddles when session ends
Can play out fantasies
Talking during sex... hearing his voice is always nice
If he orgasms before he tries to please after through foreplay

[michaela94]

I think that the guy needs to actually be interested in what the girl wants. Same goes for the girl, although, in my opinion all girls think about is what the guy is going to like. Foreplay is important. They have to be a good kisser because making out is one of the greatest turn-ons out there. Other than that, they just need to be attentive and care about something other than themselves getting off.

[Craigie]

I always want to try and make the girl orgasam first with oral

[ibodi]

violence, I am surprised that is true but I can not still.
And doubt is that a lover I love? beyond it is so pain
I am tired.

[ak_vic96]

that she joins me in the act & put some effort in satisfying me also 😋😜

[Craigie]

You like her to ride you and take control

[ak_vic96]

sometimes maybe 😜

[Craigie]

How long can you last before Cummin

[ak_vic96]

I don't know srsly... but for sure i can say it's above average

while doing the deed, I can't keep a track of time 😜

it's depends upon situation too situation sometimes also

wbu

[Craigie]

I like at least 30 min then I'm happy, size are you?

[ak_vic96]

the penis?

[Craigie]

Yeah

[ak_vic96]

5.5 - 6.5 the average size 😋

[Craigie]

Cool

[ak_vic96]

aren't u average?

[Craigie]

I'm just under 7

[ak_vic96]

above average 🙄

[Craigie]

Big enough haha

[ak_vic96]

yeh big enough to satisfy her for lifetime and give her the ride of lifetime & maybe tear her pussy apart in the deed 😜

no offence

[Craigie]

I'm not that kind of guy lol size don't mean you're 'good'

[Turkish_Delight]

He should make the foreplay last long, at least for 30 minutes. He should really want it, he should be passionate about sex. He should be clean and shave his hair, he should not only think of himself, but also feeding the female's apetite.

[Craigie]

I would want to make you orgasam first during foreplay ;-)

[Mil00]

Actually caring about the other person enjoying their self/getting off, not just them (personal side note, due to selfishness, I have yet to actually "orgasm". It's depressing.

Chemistry.

Foreplay.

Dominance.

[Craigie]

Yet to orgasam a tall order just with a guy?

[Mil00]

Not understanding your question?

[Craigie]

Have you made your self orgasam? Is it just with boys you can't do it?

[Mil00]

It doesn't feel good doing things on my own. at all , so I don't attempt anymore.

[Craigie]

Have boys made you orgasam?

[Mil00]

No? I kinda said that already ahaha

[Craigie]

You should try get them to make you orgasam before they come its about you enjoying it to

[Mil00]

Many guys don't know how. They watch porn and see a guy ramming his finger inside a woman and think, "oh wow, I bet they love that", but no. It hurts lol.

I still feel like a virgin, but I'm happy. I like it. Because now I can do what I have always wanted to do. I didn't want to lose my virginity to somebody I was not going to be with for a long time. because I have not yet orgasmed I can wait for that right person and experience that with them.

[Levin]

Surprised there are people, in the age of information, that still can't make women cum. It's little more difficult than clicking one's fingers...

[Anonymous]

Multiple orgasms! Discovered this ability by accident. My boyfriend at the time, would stay inside me after we came while we caught our breath and just came down. Even tho, he wasn't still hard my parts were still super sensitive and tingly, I couldn't help but move my hips against him... and before long O #2 came roaring along. Sometimes O #2 was better than the 1st go. **sighs

[xoxocaxoxo]

I'm a fan of the little things it's all in the details. Don't forget that foreplay is just as important as the real thing and for me is just as fun and makes the whole experience better and more personal.

[Craigie]

We love foreplay, we can do a full session and both orgasam just with foreplay and oral without actually having sex

[Shianne1999]

Stamina and passion. It makes the experience soo memorable when my boyfriend wrapped his arms around me and kisses my neck

[Craigie]

Sounds great

[BourbonTaurus]

making you feel confident, sexy and relaxed. talking dirty and making a bit of noise to show they're enjoying it

[Craigie]

I love dirty talk and roleplay before sex

[BourbonTaurus]

foreplay is essential and dirty talk adds to this

[Craigie]

What foreplay you into

[kiahrose]

I personally like a dominant guy, just my opinion, when they're controlling but still kind, and when they're controlling outside of the bedroom it's really a turn off, or really shy men in bed are really good because they are a lot more gentle

[Craigie]

Are you into foreplay and oral

[kiahrose]

not the latter

[kiahrose]

but yes foreplay

[Craigie]

What do you like your boyfriend to do

[kiahrose]

I don't know

[kiahrose]

I don't have a boyfriend

[Craigie]

Cool

[kiahrose]

yeah

[kiahrose]

not really

[Craigie]

You looking for one then? Kinda guy you go for?

[kiahrose]

um well physical or personality wise?

[Craigie]

Both

[kiahrose]

oh well I don't really like muscular guys or facial hair I like tall guys, personality wise I want someone who won't get mad when I rant about stuff, watch some shoes I like with me and just shy intellegent guys.

[kiahrose]

shows*

[Craigie]

Size you like them to be

[kiahrose]

What?

[Craigie]

Tall short? Inches?

[Craigie]

I'm just board lol sorry

[kiahrose]

Oh, um most guys I'm attracted to are around 5'11 or taller

[Craigie]

Like them tall then lol how would you describe your looks/body shape

[kiahrose]

well I have a small figure I'm 5'0 I have dirty blonde hair I have light freckles and light brown and I have light brown eyes and large circle glasses, you?

[Craigie]

I'm 5"10 slim short brown hair Hazel eyes clean shaven

[kiahrose]

cool

[Craigie]

:-),

[kiahrose]

I'm 105lb by the way

[Craigie]

Light as! Haha

[kiahrose]

Lolol

[Craigie]

So board

[kiahrose]

same

[Craigie]

What you up to?

[kiahrose]

just getting ready for school, you?

[Craigie]

Trying on new clothes I got few days ago

[kiahrose]

yeah.

[Craigie]

T shirts and boxers lol nothing exciting

[kiahrose]

Oh, I see

[Craigie]

You wish haha :-D

[Kitten967]

Pay attention to what I like, do the things I like, try or make me cum.

[Craigie]

I think the girl should always come first!

[Kitten967]

Good thinking!

[Craigie]

Can you come with actual sex or just oral

[Kitten967]

It's hard for girls to cum from just sex but it can be done. I can cum from just sex but it takes me longer

[Craigie]

Licking normally is what gets it done for me

[Kitten967]

Yeah

[Craigie]

What size they need to have to get you to orgasam

[Kitten967]

Between 6 and 8 inches. No bigger no smaller. But I rarely cum from just sex so it matters more if they are good with their mouth lol

[Craigie]

I'm just about 7 inch i try and finger at same time in doggie, what position you into

[Kitten967]

I like most positions lol I don't have a favourite

[Craigie]

Reverse cowgirl I love my cock getting teased with different speeds haha

[Kitten967]

Yeah haha

[Craigie]

When did you first make a guy cum? Think I was like 13 when I came

[Kitten967]

I was 14

[Craigie]

What's the story?

[Kitten967]

He was my boyfriend at the time. I can't remember the first time I made him cum but I think it was a hand job

[Craigie]

Mind was from a Handjob in the back of the school haha

[Kitten967]

lol mine was at his house

[Craigie]

Cool:-)

[Kitten967]

☺yeah

[JulieXO]

Willingness to try new things, enthusiasm and being good at oral.

[Craigie]

I love getting them to orgasam with oral

[JenSCDC]

Pay attention to how the other person reacts to what you're doing so that you learn what's best for them.

[Calsiren]

Considering your satisfaction over them chasing orgasm

[reixun]

Being extra dominant and responding properly to all my challenges.

[Craigie]

What positions you like best

[reixun]

Similar to you, I think I'd like cowgirl the most.

[Craigie]

I love my dick getting teased with different speeds and not being in control, I like doggie to so I can get in really deep

[Levin]

Challenges? You make yourself sound like a fair maiden from medieval times, trying to make your knight prove himself be successful in navigating quests that put himself in mortal danger, that would claim the lives of lesser souls =/

What is a challenge? You want him to slay a dragon in far off lands or something? I'm not sure it's worth it, as a guy...

[reixun]

@Levin lol, I like banter and wouldn't be into the kind of guy that gives into teasing

[Anonymous]

Somebody that you sinc a rhythm with... someone just pounding like a jackhammer is oh so bad-lol.

[Craigie]

Sounds like you've had a few of them lol

[Anonymous]

Attraction to him, good communication, stamina, rhythym and a sense of fun.

[Craigie]

How long do you want it to last

[Opinion Owner]

I can usually finish within 10-12 minutes of sex or even less sometimes minutes if I'm turned on.

[Opinion Owner]

That's just the thrusting - about 75% of the time there needs to be decent kissing and touching beforehand.

[Craigie]

I love self

[Craigie]

I love roleplay before it

[Anonymous]

He needs to have those hip motions so he can pound me good

[ShaunaM95]

Sexual chemistry and foreplay.

[Craigie]

I love roleplaying, what foreplay do you like to have

[FinnishBeautyGirl]

Responding to my needs

[Craigie]

What are your needs from a guy

[lostgirl_searching]

I don't know it.

[lostgirl_searching]

*yet

[Craigie]

I get in deepest with doggie

[KiaTate]

I don't know.

[Craigie]

What's the most you've done?

[KiaTate]

Hugging.

[Craigie]

I love hugs haha

[KiaTate]

Me too

[Craigie]

Hugs! ! Squeeze

[Rose_]

i dont know 😵

[Craigie]

Fair enough,

[bighairy1]

Passion, stamina

[Craigie]

How long can you last

[bighairy1]

Why do you ask?

[Craigie]

Just chatting lol

[bighairy1]

3 days & nights consecutively. married 20 years ago, so not in the last 20 years.

[Anonymous]

Attentive

[Anonymous]

a fit body

[Craigie]

What do you consider a fit body? Even tho they look good could they still not perform bad?

[Opinion Owner]

it is a turn on for me

[Craigie]

Small boobs turn me on

[Opinion Owner]

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like that

[Craigie]

Off course haha same for yourself

[Opinion Owner]

i am fit too

[Craigie]

Wonder what's underneath