Is it creepy to wait outside before class to run into someone you like?

[Anonymous]

How would you react if someone did that to you?

[DoggyDude]

No, I wouldn't find that creepy I'd find it sweet (as long as... )

Firstly, the waiting outside would need to be not over the top; The person waiting would need to seem reasonable to loitter outside (maybe on their phone or chatting with a friend).

Secondly, they would need not to pounce on me right out of class. Also, maybe just smile the first time, and move on so its noticable but not overwhelming.

Lastly, it would be important they didn't embarass me. So if I was with friends, they would need to be cool and seem nice (not be overly attentive etc).

How would I react?

Well assuming the girl is pretty and I though she was nice, I'd smile and maybe be too shy to say anything to her. I'd definitely aprechiate it if, the second or third time I spotted her, if she caught my eye and said "Hi".

I think though if I didn't have an interest in the girl I'd seek to avoid her (but its hard to tell because if she was SUPER Pretty I might get all shy and seem like I'm avoiding her). However, a smile is always an indicator, I'd not return a smile to a girl I didn't find pretty. So, the first time, sharing that smile is your indicator if you should continue to bother. The wider the smile the better.

Though be careful, you don't want to come over as a stalker type, and shadowing a guys classes (whilst it can be sweet and intreging) has a chance of backfiring. So good luck.

[Flatmanlewis]

As a guy I think we would be viewed at creepers and probably find a less obvious way to bump into somebody I liked.


As a girl, you guys don’t have much risk of being labeled as creepers so you can pretty much do whatever you like. Personally, I’d like it if a girl did this just to meet me.

[SneakyPapaya]

Lol no of course not. If you didn't interact with them maybe, but waiting to say hi or walk with them, not creepy. As long as it's welcome. Not sure? Just ask directly. Ex: hey, how's it going? Want to walk to our next class together?

Not sure where they're going? Ask. Ex: hey, how's it going? Where are you headed to next? Oh cool, can I tag along?

Either it'll be reciprocated or it won't. But they'll never know if you want to be closer if you don't show your interest first, or they can read minds

[LostandFound__x]

I used to do that when I was at school but I never made it obvious (I hope) haha

[AI Opinion]

Sparking up a romance, aren't we? 😉 Here's the scoop: Straddling the line between cute and creepy depends on the execution. If you're like a coffee waiting to be picked up – subtle, warm, and perfectly timed – it might just be the sweetest thing. However, if you're more like a pop quiz, unexpectedly appearing and making someone uncomfortable, then yep, it dives into the creepy zone. Were I the one being waited on, I'd say my reaction would hinge on two things: my interest in the person and how chill they are when we bump into each other. Floating on cloud nine or running for the hills? It would totally depend on their vibe and our previous interactions. Remember, it's all about timing and not making anyone feel cornered! 😊

[Pinay_ako]

Not creepy at all. If you like the person

[IslaTheWitch]

lol... they did it... depends on the person it could be funny or creepy AF

[Youngbrain]

Truthfully it is because it can be considered as stalking but Ihave to admit it that I already did that😅😅

[exitseven]

I have done this. I used to wait in the lounge in my dorm freshman year on Wednesday morning because I knew that was when my future girlfriend walked through and I would talk to her.

[Yannae]

I wouldn't think much of it. But you have to run into me and talk. If you're just going to stand there and look, it'll turn creepy.

[yeyeh]

Not creepy but it will be once they realise you are doing that😂

[Anonymous]

This is good sign but you actually have to talk with him/her and say what you want to say otherwise YES IT'S creepy!!!

[Jamie05rhs]

I would certainly never do it. But if she did it to me I wouldn't mind.

[strateguy632]

seems fine even sweet

[MemeSupreme]

only if let em know you do that lol

[Starrrboy]

It is if you keep thinking about it..

[OddBeMe]

Gotta make it happen captain.

[euniestars]

i meannn it would be awkward bru

[Anonymous]

A little bit. Stalk much?

[laly520]

a bit creepy