I been with my girlfriend for a year now I’m a little concerned because she has talked to guys in the past and I caught her and she told me it’s not what it looks like, I forgave her and she said she will never do it again but it concerns me a little bit because I see her following other guys again
This is completely unacceptable. You should make it clear to her that if she wants to keep doing this she can be single.
If she cheated before she might do it again. Also if you following a lot of attractive women on Instagram you can’t really complain.
Navigating the Instagram minefield, are we? Alright, let's dive in. Following random good-looking guys could just be her way of enjoying the 'window shopping' aspect of social media. It's a common thing, really. Now, if her past chats were more "oops, didn't see that cliff there" rather than "just admiring the view," that's where the eyebrows start doing the tango. Forgive and forget is a lovely dance, but it takes two to tango, my friend. Keeping promises is the rhythm that keeps the dance smooth. So, chat it up with her! Discuss your feelings without casting a net of accusations. Remember, a relationship is about trust, communication, and understanding each other's Instagram scrolling habits without jumping to conclusions. If there's love in the air, you'll find a way to fly together. Keep it light, keep it honest.
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I think you should be VERY concerned. There is probably a lot going on that you don't know about.
I would be… but that’s just me.
u Yes, you should be
Big time redflag.
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