Should I be bothered that my boyfriend follows attractive women on social media he meets in passing?

[Anonymous]

He recently started doing uber a few months ago and I noticed a big uptick in women he follows/friends on social media. Now we are in our mid - late 30's and these are mostly attractive women in their 20's, like college women and I'm like what on earth could you possibly have in common with them? why the need to follow and friend women you meet doing uber? Maybe I'm being insecure. I'm also bothered that most nights he does uber it's until 2-3 in the morning and combined with this I'm concerned.

[Anonymous]

He doesn’t need to have anything in common to want to fuck them. So that has no relevance when it comes to following them. Chances are he rubs one out a time or two to their pics. As for being worried about whether he’d cheat or not. That is hard to say, I don’t know him. The one thing I will say though is that it’s different if I was following women on social medial like hot movie stars, there’s an almost 0% chance that I’d ever get a shot at someone like that. For one they’re far away, they have their choice of millions of men. But as for your boyfriend, these women he’s following are closer to the chance of being able to mess around. I hope that makes sense.

[Asker]

Exactly. I don't care which celebrities or 'models' he follows but these are local women he's had brief encounters with face to face. Many of them follow him back as well. This does not sit well with me.

[Opinion Owner]

Have you talked to him about it? What did he say?

[Asker]

I haven't tried talking to him about it yet. I don't think it will go very well.

[Opinion Owner]

May want to talk to him. Like I said it’s different if these are women who he as well as most men would never had a shot at, but these women are closer to your front door than celebrities.

[Guy13]

Yes, that would both worry and bother me.

[rienna888]

Yea you should be concerned, ur saying he picks up attractive girls and adds their insta?

[Asker]

Yes - I believe so. He's very outgoing and chatty. I noticed an uptick in women (local ) he follows on social and started paying more attention and it's definitely during or right after uber nights.

[rienna888]

And you are in a relationship?

[rienna888]

I think you have to tell him to stop his shit or ur leaving him

[rienna888]

Did you speak with him? Don’t be with a scum who makes you insecure. Thank you for MHO

[Anonymous]

Most men do that. If you find a guy that doesn't flirt online, you better not let him go.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Yes!!! Whys he doing that?