Or would you choose a completely single person who never got married and doesn’t have kids?
No. Unmarried people can have just as much experience. Some people don't get married too soon. Some do.
There are so many variables as too how everything went down. And who was the problem in the marriage. And usually divorced people ain't gonna be like yeah i sucked as a husband or wife.
So you would be just like any relationship hearing one side of the reason for the divorce.
Plus the baggage that comes with divorced people as well.
So there is no clear answer as to this being the case
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I don't think a divorced person would be better or worse than another person for a relationship. What matters is how someone is in general and if you have chemistry.
Everyone despite their experiences and baggage is ideal for marriage! I would say experiences are important so you can learn the roller coaster of a relationship because it's not always red roses in a relationship! In the end for me its all about the love for one and another and whether or not we are both individually matured to be in a relationship and deal with all the consequences that come with it!
The female happiness with a partner decreases quite rapidly with the number of past partners though there is possibly some evidence it kicks up slightly after 30 past partners.
So you would be best opting for a girl who had never even been kissed.
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They divorced in the past, what make you think they don't divorce again? and someone else's kids? who want them? more than single, I would choose a virgin, as she is best.
Divorced people, especially divorced men, are the worst type to marry because they’ve been fucked over in divorce court which always favors women. He will just increasingly expect the same shit to happen again and again and again unless he doesn’t give a shit about himself. I’m meeting more and more men who just don’t give a shit about themselves.
Both are not ideal partners unless one of them knows how results actually happen. Idc if someone knows the wrong way; that doesn't mean they know the right way. You can't leave these things up to luck and chance. You have to know what you're doing and if you don't you need to find someone who does so they can tell you. This is your life. You could have 2 years left for all you know.
A previous divorce - especially with kids - and I'd be wary. Although my age and never married is a question mark as well.
I'd talk and find out why they divorced. If she's got kids - especially plural as multiple fathers is an instant red flag - I'd want her to tell me what kind of father they were, because that's what she's going to be saying about me if we split.
But what do I know? I've been married 20 years and only dated two other women.I'd prefer to rough it out with the girl lacking in relationship experience. Nothing against divorced people, but most of them I'm aware of have trauma that they carry onto the next relationship; you end up suffering from the mistakes the last guy made
More experience in everything is always better. It is the ones that lose in relationships and give up that are the real losers. People who bounce back from bad experiences are the real keepers.
Hell no. I would take the single no kids never had a relationship over the divorced woman every time. Not a chance in hell I would marry a divorced woman
Usually someone that’s been divorced is really experienced and if they consider marriage again then they know they are the right person since they not what problems to look for already before getting married again
No I wouldn't say more ideal they're divorced for a reason, that one guy with no relationship experience could treat you better than anyone you've ever met, don't shoot it down some guys could love hard, I would know 😭👌🏼.
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Their is no 1to1 answer here sometimes that epirance is a good thing othertimes it also carries truma that can hurt a relationship
My wife is a family law attorney.. and she tells me the people that come to her office to get divorced from their spouse end up getting divorced over and over again. So I would take my chance on a single person with no experience.
no way! the opposite. divorcees have emotional "baggage" that will often surface.
No. It depends on the circumstances of the divorce, but in general women are the initiators of divorce, largely because modern women lack commitment. So in general I see divorced women as a red flag.
There is no correct answer to this. Experience DOESN'T make you better at relationships. It all comes down to each person.
Doesn't matter. What matters is if I get along or not
both have their issues
divorcees are often jaded
while singles are often inexperiencedIt takes two. 🙂
I'd choose a completely single person.
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