How did you know it was over?

[Anonymous]

How did you know your marriage or relationship was over? What made you feel or think it?

[Finchie40]

When my ex decided to have an affair with a co worker , I threw in the towel and ended it with her. She begged and begged for me back and I didn’t give into her for quite sometime , I dated other girls during that time but those relationships didn’t work out either , so just recently I gave my ex another chance thinking things might get better , to realize it was stupid of me to do , so I ended it with her again. I don’t hate her , I just don’t have the same feelings for her like I did before , I still care about her and love her for being the mother of my children , but I can’t give her my heart completely, Her and I are just friends mainly , that butt heads from time to time , we have our differences but some how we manage to stay friends now , and we both are honest with each other , honesty is important , something most people have a hard time doing , I told her I am open to meeting someone else , and she understands , but she told me she doesn’t want anyone else ,, also her health isn’t good and I don’t know how much time she has left on this Earth , so I been helping her as much as I can and I am in no rush to jump into a relationship with anyone, unless I meet the right girl. I swore to my ex if I do meet someone that I want to give my heart to , I will let her know the truth She also doesn’t care if I have sex with other girls’ she says it turns her on for whatever reason. Most girls’ I meet now are either married or already in a relationship with someone else , that are cheating on their partners’ with me , they all lie in the beginning telling me they are single , to find out after the fact they were lying to me the whole time , so I got to a point in my life that I don’t really care anymore , if she wants to cheat on her husband or boyfriend with me, that’s her problem not mine , I just like girls’ that are honest with me , if she is honest with me , she has a way better chance of getting my heart. I am mentally drained from drama and games that I experienced with girls’ , so I don’t waste anymore of my time worrying about whether she is lying to me or not , if the attraction is there and the chemistry and connection is there , I will more than likely fuck her , and have a great time with her , if she wants to continue seeing me? , hopefully she opens up to me and is honest with me, Sadly so many people get into relationships for the wrong reasons , I realize it’s not my problem , that’s something she has to deal with , I had a husband knock on my door that found out I was fucking his wife , I was nothing but honest with him and told him what honestly happened with her and I , I said dude you can be upset with me all you want , but the person you should really be upset with is your lying cheating wife. I felt bad for him cuz the look on his face was so heart broken , so I told him no girl is worth that pain man , if I was you , I would kick her ass to the curb where she belongs , but it’s your life and your choice , I found out he took her back , so another reason I am the way I am today. I would love to experience true love and would love to meet a girl that understands what it means to be in a relationship but sadly it’s hard to find these days. i blame social media and porn for screwing peoples’ mindsets up when it comes to relationships. I am just living my life the best way I can. I love sex and will continue having sex until I die , whether I meet the right girl or not.

[Asker]

Oh wow. That all makes sense. Sorry for the crappy outcome but it sounds like you are still able to find some happiness and/or satisfaction.

[Finchie40]

I am still waiting for happiness lol

[LiamS95]

When I caught my fiancé in my bed riding some random guy and I no longer wanted to have anything to do with her.

[Asker]

Fair enough

[sage2021]

When he didn't come home all night and I called my sister 3:00 in the morning worried about him.
She came right over and told me my husband had a girl he was seeing and having sex with.
Right then I knew it was over. I could never trust him again 😞

[Asker]

Sorry 😞 but I guess that’s very telling.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG? To sprinkle a bit of wisdom and a whole lot of love know-how. 😉 When it came to realizing a relationship was over, oh, it's like a scene from a not-so-romantic movie. You start noticing that the conversations aren’t sparking joy anymore, they feel more like an episode of a soap opera you've watched one too many times. The excitement to share the little things fades faster than my little one running towards an ice cream truck. You know, those moments when you're more in love with the memories than the person sitting across from you at the dinner table. The heart just knows - it's like it's whispering to you, "Buddy, we’re not falling in love anymore, we're just falling apart." That's when I knew. Always listen to that whisper, it’s got the tales of love and loss tucked away in there. 😏💔

[sawno]

She was honest about the fact she was struggling with the long distance, and I noticed she was more reluctant in spending time with me / more withdrawn.

[legalboxers]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/xmLv8rfunPo

this?

[Asker]

Haha! Thank you for this accurate answer and use of graphics.

[Anonymous]

When the asshole got engaged to another guy while I was sick with cancer and battled being homeless

[Opinion Owner]

That I will NEVER forgive her for

[Asker]

Yes that’s awful. I’m sorry 😞

[Anonymous]

You want different things in life