Would you be with someone who doesn't respect you, but takes care of you financially?

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dustybiker2 · Accepted Answer

No.
Everyone has to learn to stand on their own two feet at some point. In a situation like this there is no better time than in that moment of realizing you aren't in a healthy relationship.
If a woman there should be resources available in your area. For men it's a bit harder.
Lesson. Never rely fully on anyone. The rug can always be pulled out from under you for any number of reasons. Not to mention someone shouldn't be a burden for others either if it can be helped.

serious_miss419 · Accepted Answer

That’s the old way for a woman to live.
It’s hurtful and difficult to live that way and hard to get out of it.
Women now a days don’t tolerate that and men are flipping out.
Make a safety plan; photo copy all your I. D, get a small bag with tooth brush and and underwear, pants and socks, and make a run for it when he is at work or in the shower.
Go to a women’s shelter, call them before you actually leave tell them your plan so they can assist you.

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

If this individual ( partner ) whatever has taken financial control , then understand you've " sold your soul " he is in charge , he owns you.
Now does he respect you? Probably not , as he is running the show , no contribution.
Of course if what you say is true , you shouldn't be there , respect is subjective , you need to earn respect , not just sit on your arse with your hand out.

coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

Many women do this and get what they want in the present but long term it usually never works out.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Aiming to sprinkle a bit of relationship wisdom here! Imagine love as a spicy dish, respect is that essential ingredient without which the meal tastes bland, no matter how much sugar (or in this case, money) you sprinkle on it. Being taken care of financially might sound sweet, but without respect, it's like a castle built on sand. It might look impressive from a distance, but a single wave (or argument) could wash it all away. Always opt for a relationship where respect and love go hand in hand, adding that irresistible spice to your life! Remember, you deserve a partner who admires you for who you are, not just for the financial stability they provide. Keep it saucy! 😉

SolitarySolace · Answer

Nope, and unfortunately women don’t respect men these days they expect men to respect them without reason. Men do everything and receive zero respect from his woman. It’s just expected of him to do things with no respect given in return. Which is one of the many reasons why I have decided 9 years ago to remain single

IslaTheWitch · Answer

no, thank you... respect is one of the pillars of the relationship, together with trust and open communication...

Princesspeach1411 · Answer

I’m not going to stay where I’m not respected. Money or no money, I am worthy of being loved and respected. I also don’t rely on the money of others, I’m independent and can financially look after myself.

Billlewis · Answer

I often take care of women financially, and I know quite well that they don't respect me at all. I actually prefer that kind of dynamic in my relationships.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

Nope. My parents can take care of me. If they aren't treating me right, my family or best friends will take me right away from them (as they should). So, it's not just me leaving them.

Agape93 · Answer

nope. I support myself just fine, so if you don't respect me, you'll be single

LadyKitty · Answer

Hell no! I can take care of myself financially. Ain't no amount of money would make me put up with someone who disrespects me.

BlissfullyCurSed · Answer

Yeah... why not? That is what sugar daddies are for. The only problem is that they don't roam around in the wild as often as they once did.

blueonblack22 · Answer

Well if you need someone to take care of you financially  that says even more about you  then it says about them

Unit1 · Answer

nope

NathanDavis · Answer

Would you be with someone who doesn't respe...  NOPE

sawno · Answer

No, I seek the deepest connection possible. I'll take care of myself waiting for her.

rosemilk · Answer

uh no, i can take care of myself financially quite well

CheeseMonster · Answer

No. That's why I moved out of my parents house lol

mobiusforniner · Answer

Hmm. Sounds like my parents. I left home at 17 and never looked back.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Nope. That sounds like an awful way to go through life.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope, but I've never been in a situation where I needed to be helped so not sure how relevant my opinion on this is.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

No, I don't expect a woman to take care of my financially. Respect and love are far more important to me

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

No because you’re proving yourself to be a darn fool

douride2 · Answer

Not a chance I would be with someone who doesn't resect me. I support myself very well.

Booklover_90 · Answer

No. I have too much  self -respect to put up with that nonsense.

handsomelad70 · Answer

Perhaps, and I think many people would struggle mightily with that decision.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Nope make my own way in life don't need be looked after by anyone

Anonymous · Answer

being dependent on anybody for ANYTHING always ends well. so if he changes his moods whats going to happen 2 u?

Anonymous · Answer

Well I’m taking care of someone financially and not respected so one or the other versus none sounds pretty good

Anonymous · Answer

No that's just stupidity, but women do stupid things for money...

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

No, Never. Not worth it one bit.

EmmaMary · Answer

No, absolutely not.

slatyb · Answer

No, I wouldn't and you shouldn't either.

jahaims · Answer

No, I have self respect

Fireguy17 · Answer

nope, not at all. The cost is too high.

Yannae · Answer

No that is not worth my short time on this earth.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

No. That’s a toxic relationship

tierrlamé · Answer

nah i dont care about how much she makes

VV3ZZY123 · Answer

Yea until I can support myself

LiamS95 · Answer

No. I can manage on my own.

AmyHew1tt · Answer

I would not.

In_Trance · Answer

people do this all the time

Tyler2 · Answer

Hell no. Respect should always be mutual.

elaphe · Answer

Absolutely not.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Respect rules over any dollar sign.

dragoblack · Answer

Hell no!. That's asking to kill your soul.

poshspice123 · Answer

Nope

LazerBean · Answer

Nope.

Anonymous · Answer

Why does he not respect you?

WhitneySnow · Answer

No!!

12karen · Answer

Nope

Chelsdope0 · Answer

Fuck no

laly520 · Answer

no too toxic

MrZameer · Answer

No way. Never.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Fuck no!

LavLavLuv · Answer

No 🥴

Staximus · Answer

Hell no

deniz345 · Answer

Absolutely not

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