Why do men want a "good girl" at home but then cheat with the total opposite?

[sheikalana]

[MrOracle]

First, most men don't cheat. Some certainly do, of course, but that's a reflection of their morals and values, and their selfishness.

That aside, if a man is GOING to cheat, why wouldn't it make complete and total sense to do it this way?

Good girls are who you pick for a relationship (if you're smart, anyway). What are bad girls *for*, then? The obvious, and only answer is: "for casual sex." If you are the type of person who is going to cheat on your good relationship, the very OBVIOUS and LOGICAL type of person to do that with is a bad girl, is it not? A good girl likely isn't going to have casual sex with you at all, and certainly not if she knows you're already in a relationship. A bad girl isn't going to care, and is far more likely to say "yes" in the first place.

Swap genders, and the same thing is going to be true: women will pick a "bad boy" to cheat on her good husband with, every time, for the same reasons.

[Drew-1990]

Because they are selfish men who are not really good guys. Only a selfish and weak willed person cheats. Now I will admit for the idea of just having fun a bad girl is more attractive but not good or attractive for long term. But a good man will know this this and stay away from the bad girl. Some of us would never cheat no matter what.

[Anonymous]

They what both girls give them. However, the real reason is they lack self control. I think most people do. Naturally everyone does until they learn how to control themselves. Do something that is apart of your conditioning does not require self control by the way. A lot people get that mixed up.

Lack of self control is the 2nd biggest problem in the world

[Apple1996]

Because they really are only attracted to bad girls but use good girls for creating a family/marriage

[TonyMetal___86]

Not all men are like that and you know it miss apples, i'm here to break all these bad reputations 😁

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to shed some light on this love enigma! Ah, the classic tale of chasing after the untamed, while having the comfort of the familiar at home. It's a dance of desire and boredom, where the thrill of the new and forbidden spices up life's bland moments. But here's the twist, it's not just a 'men' thing, it's a human thing. Craving excitement, we sometimes forget the treasure we have, mistaking comfort for monotony. It's a case of "the grass looks greener" but remember, true love isn't about seeking perfection elsewhere; it's about creating magic with the one you've promised your heart to. So, before embarking on a quest for the opposite, it might be worth watering your own grass first. 😏💫

[IslaTheWitch]

I think most men just cheat with a different woman... not the total opposite of their partner... quite often, a woman in a similar situation, in a relationship, where something is missing...

[Nikki1989]

Most men don't know what they want.

[Harshbro]

Most married men can’t cheat, they’ve ended up as the provider for some chick that’s been slutting around with handsome dudes throughout youth. These guys don’t even have the option, given it they may. Self control exists sure but beastial desire is hard to tame. Humans aren’t monogamous by nature

[TommyMountainFigure]

I honestly don't know. Maybe some men like the excitement of cheating. There are certainly plenty of women like that!

[LaurenM1997]

Some men want side dishes I feel sorry for the woman who is with that guy who will cheat

[TonyMetal___86]

Personally i'll be happy with my main dish only 😌
If i was married, there is no way i'd cheat, not even in my mind...

The only thing that i cheat in are meals, for example if i was married and my housewife made me a meal without giving me pepsi, i'll crawl like a snake to the fridge and drink a cold refreshing pepsi cola 🤣🤣

[LaurenM1997]

@TonyMetal___86 that’s my man! 🙂

[TonyMetal___86]

I'll bring you a cold bottle of fanta too mias lauren, keep it a secret 😂

[LaurenM1997]

@TonyMetal___86 I love a Fanta 🙂 yes we will keep this between us 🤐

[TonyMetal___86]

😁👍🏻

[LaurenM1997]

@TonyMetal___86 a Fanta maybe a cocktail too haha now I’m pushing it 🤣

[TonyMetal___86]

Yum yum, i love cocktail juice made from strawberries, honey, sugar and banana 😋

[LaurenM1997]

@TonyMetal___86 there’s a cocktail called strawberry daiquiri I am not sure if you’ve heard it before?

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope but i'll google it, i'd like to fill mias lauren's body with vitamins and energy so she becomes a happy wonder woman 😄

[LaurenM1997]

@TonyMetal___86 awww sounds good 🙂

[sage2021]

This guy once told me he likes a woman in public, but a whore in bed 🤷🏼‍♀️

[DrPepper12]

Why do women want a good man at home and a bad boy on the outs? I always think it's the thrill of the chase for the forbidden fruit.

[Anonymous]

They are hypocrites that thinks that good girls will always forgive them

[KrakenAttackin]

Very few men cheat. For the men who have a "good marriage", but still cheats, three men are damaged.

[jahaims]

Cheaters are mentally ill. Applying logic there doesn't work.

[BarryLiverstone]

You mean cheat with a bad guy? That’s the opposite of a good girl

[Anonymous]

Why do women have a bad experience with a man and then assume all men are the same?

[sheikalana]

It's a general question I'm not saying all Men are the same.

[Opinion Owner]

The way you phrased your question suggested you think all or most men are that way, and the reality is it's a small minority of men who actually are. Perpetuating negative (and false) stereotypes in not cool. It seems like people (both sexes) are doing it more and more, whch is sad.

[Anonymous]

Did your husband cheat?🤡
Don't put that on other men

[Nerdvana]

Are you saying all men? Or did you mean some men?

[sheikalana]

I didn't say ALL men. I've seen some men behaving this way.

[Nerdvana]

Some men are selfish and want the best of both worlds.

[Kelly6]

@sheikalana want verity

[sheikalana]

What's that?

[Kelly6]

Typo*

Variant lol

[MrOracle]

She means "he wants variety" - meaning, he wants new and different girls.

[Kelly6]

@MrOracle hmm something quagmire understands lol

[handsomelad70]

Typical male hypocrisy.

[MrsWW]

Madonna/wh*re complex is strong in some men

[sheikalana]

What's that? Neve heard of it.

[MrsWW]

Some men place women into 2 categories: madonna or wh0re. They have an exclusive relationship with the "madonna" girls and see them as loving and virtuous. But because of how they perceive them they can't get aroused and sleep or cheat with the "wh0re" women; the ones they see as sexy and dangerous but are incapable of loving and only want them for sex.

[Anonymous]

Because there just cheaters lol