Do men like women who serve them?

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Do men like women who serve them? I do whatever my husband wants. I massage my husband, cook, iron his clothes, take off his socks.

Logan-5 · Accepted Answer

If it's lopsided, I get self-conscious. (For example, I don't want my reason for living to massage my big ugly feet.) I like mutual subservience. I like to be with someone to whom I can show my affection without reservation, without worrying about being exploited or viewed as compromising my manhood. And I like someone who does what I like her to do: be a little exhibitionistic in public, dress very provocatively at home, keep a smooth surface for my tongue to drag on, have fun with other women for me, get woken up to giving or receiving oral... I clean the toilets, sinks, and tub and take out the trash so as not to risk anything impairing her libido.

But I also want someone who tells me what she does and doesn't like--that openness is important to be efficient in mutual pleasing; otherwise, one tries 10 things in hopes that one works. That's 9 times that the recipient could have been enjoying something but wasn't. I've been with quite the contrasts in that department. In front of her family members I said that one thing I liked was that she tells you what she wants. Her family burst out laughing. Of course, they've had experience with that far longer than I had, and I was the only one present who'd experienced the benefit in the sexual department, so what to me was a compliment was in their minds a complaint.

FatNeville · Accepted Answer

Speaking for this man, I like women for other reasons. I mostly care about whether a woman is a kind and compassionate person who can show empathy. If she is, that goes a significant way in making me more likely to like her. If such a girl were to serve me, I would still like her. Although I can also see how it could be argued that doing whatever I want would be showing compassion, so that would possibly score some points with me. On the other hand, if you were to ask me whether I like it when my woman serves me, that is a slightly different matter. To that I would probably yes. Most of what I want is what she wants, but there may be things about which she has no opinion whatsoever. In those cases, she may defer to my judgment. I have had a woman who seemed to enjoy seeing to my wants. She generally made sure, for example, that my stomach was full (and my balls empty). I see such behavior as just a possible manifestation of the love she has for me, and I of course would do other things to serve her because I loved her as well. It's often about how our skills complement each other that makes two better than one.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

I'm here to sprinkle a little insight into your love potion! 😊 It seems you've been busy being the ultimate care package, which is super adorable by the way. However, love is a two-way street! While some men might appreciate being pampered (who doesn't, right?), it's key to ensure there's balance. It's fab to shower your partner with love, but don't forget about yourself in the process. Communication is your best friend here. Find out what makes both of your hearts skip a beat, and hey, maybe it's time for those socks to come off by themselves once in a while. Stay fabulous and remember, it's about giving and receiving! 💖✨

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Summeroflove · Answer

To a point yes. But service goes both ways… There are a lot of one sided people who say “well if he or she loves me they will live in a one sided relationship” when in reality they probably don’t love them.

Now every relationship is different. If you’re more traditional and he does his thing and you do yours. Working equally as hard in different roles and you’re both happy. Then that’s great.

What all men and women want is different. Bur a lot of women have false ideas od what a traditional marriage is. They want a easy ride and if they’re even expected to lift a finger they’re a victim. When there is many women that would take their place.

Finchie40 · Answer

Only if she likes doing it and doesn’t feel forced to do it. I prefer submissive girls’ that make me feel valued and appreciated , that love to see me smile , that want to please me and stay loyal to me , that’s a girl I will keep by my side for the rest of my life to be honest. As long as she is happy and doesn’t feel forced to do it , then my answer is yes

The_Sexpert · Answer

Of course, men love wives who express their love to their husband through simple acts..  I think serve is not the right word, cause that would make you a servant not a wife

Meropatrick · Answer

Not all the times. Like i would hire a maid to clean the house. Its nice if a woman does that sometimes but not all the time or too much. I would lose respect for her if that all she does or care for

Berethor · Answer

Sounds like you a good housewife, yea men tend to like when a woman do those things.

Billlewis · Answer

No. In fact, I'm exactly the opposite. My ideal arrangement is one in which I serve her every moment that we're together, in every way possible.

BonzoInBitburg · Answer

I don't know about serving but we certainly appreciate anything that makes life easier. I think that goes both ways but some people aren't as appreciative.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

This man don't. It would be great if I wanted a slave, but I don't. I would get fed up with that scenario rather quickly!

MrZameer · Answer

I love your type of girls, You are such a great girl, you earn my respect

DextroShade · Answer

YES, men do like that. If a guy doesn't there is something seriously wrong with him and you should immediately leave and find a man worth serving.

Squatting_Slav · Answer

Yes definitely, it shows how much she loves me. But it's transactional, i'd support her and love in return in every department

FenixG45 · Answer

Of course men like when women serve them, but men should also serve women.

OtterMan68 · Answer

Some men want servants. Most want partners

Paul09 · Answer

I'd appreciate it, and love it. But also I'd be doing a lot for her too.

Knightwatch27 · Answer

Taking off his socks for him is too much. There's a difference between serving and babying.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, and women like men who serve them. That's how a healthy marriage is supposed to work.

genericname85 · Answer

no. that's what maids or buttlers are for. not women.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

They are my wenches!

soe11 · Answer

We both equally shared the task.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Duh. Very much so.

Sam12348 · Answer

That much no

Amur8711 · Answer

Yes! As it should be. Lol 😁

CubaPirate · Answer

Nope I've got more respect for them tbh

negrl4a69 · Answer

Its up to her if she wants too

NibirX · Answer

A LOTTTTT, CAN'T EVEN RISK LOSINGGGG

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