I'd prefer if the person...
Never ever use friendship as an excuse to later tell me you like me. I take friendships seriously. So if you don’t really want to be my friend because you want to be more than that, then don’t befriend me. Tell me straight up what’s up. No time for games 🤣. I’m too old for shit like that
I don’t want strangers hitting on me but I also don’t want guys who like me, pretending to be my friend so they can date me cause that means their personality around me is fake. I like guys who are friends first and then begin to show they like me at the time they start to like me. Don’t hide it and then surprise me.
using words, a few minutes into first dialog.
do you like sports, me too, bla bla, i also like you.
In all honestly I'd prefer if they didn't. Never leads anywhere good.
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I want to be told I’m liked once they know me or at least most of who i am. Otherwise how can they even know they “like” me , are we saying we only want people to like us superficially?
That means they have to be around me like a friend or date me. in my opinion dating frames it , setting an expectation , and adding pressure. friendly hanging out is more open, relaxed etc and that is def more me.
I really don’t understand why anyone could be thinking of starting anything but friends first aside from situation-ships and arrangements
For the people who actually, we were friends first and then later on I had a feeling that they liked me. The same with my boyfriend now, but I did have some doubt/question/uncertainty whether he actually liked me or I was just gaslighting myself. I don't know if I’ll call it a surprise/out of the blue when he asked me out, but I definitely wasn’t expecting at the moment.
it depends. if they show signs and me also he should first start talking to me and if there is chemistry he should tell me directly that he finds me nice and pretty and likes me and then he should offer a date. it really depends on situatuon tho!
I've NEVER had A or B , it's generally just not how it works.. C by a plethora.
I'd rather not be told. That individual wouldn't like the response theyd get. Even if they're extremely attractive.
Tell me you like me as soon as you know you like me.
Have to let me know you’re interested from the beginning. Otherwise I’ll just see you as a friend.
I like the confession to be in a place where we're alone not in public (more romantic if Jess) and at night next to the ocean (not walking but sitting on the sand or standing next to the fence) and then kiss
I don't know i think i will date when i'm 50 so it is still very far
Being friends first is a horrible idea.
It sets the wrong tone for the relationship and you can never shake it. You're there for a reason and it's not to be friends
Why say anything?
It should be obvious.
Honestly. If I suspect any game play on her part, it doesn't matter how she tells me. She's either getting her game played right back at her or she's getting stonewalled.
We’d have to get to know each other first and then I’d like for him to express interest.
Just tell me. I don’t have the time for juvenile games
Good looking women are very honest about it. I am talking from experience.
Be upfront be courteous don't push. Be friends first and build a foundation.
Sweet and direct is best.
Be friends and drop some cues
Just be upfront no games
Outright. Yes, I know. Crazy, isn't it?
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