Do you think having a relationship bucket list is normal?

[haynes]

I think everyone has a list that they want to do with their partner in their mind. They just don't write it.

[DishLady]

It depends what's on the list, doesn't it… Whatever's on the list should help you bond and flourish as a couple.
TYPE 1. ROMANTIC MEMORY-BUILDING ACTIVITIES/GOALS: "Travel together… see the Taj Mahal," etc. are sweet memory-building goals. "Pub crawl with my sweetie" … not so memory-building.
TYPE 2. LEARNING/GROWING ACTIVITIES/GOALS: "Pasta-Making Workshop… hiking workshop… yoga workshop…" (you get the idea… watch the yoga workshop, though, bc guys get visually distracted).
TYPE 3. EXTREME SPORTS/PHYSICAL ACTIVITIES/GOALS: Some folks go overboard with the bungee-type stuff, but if that's what you're both into, fine. In this category are also lists for the sexualy… curious, though I don't recommend putting those on a "bucket list" specifically because it cheapens and reduces the act of making love to just being another physical activity. (Meh.)
TYPE 4. SOCIAL ACTIVITIES/GOALS: Go to the Cannes Film Festival or something that's a combination of rare, fun and social. (This type of bucket list is particularly appealing to shy couples who are trying to break out of a behavioral cycle.)
TYPE 5. SPIRITUAL GROWTH/PHILANTHROPIC ACTIVITIES/GOALS: "Doctors without borders… Habitats for Humanity… UNICEF summer project…" etc. This is an extension of Type 2, but specifically geared towards couples who want to put some good out into the world.

That's all I have. Hope this is helpful!

[jennifer_bloom]

My bucket list would depend on whether my future husband agrees to it. Mine is to let disabled adults rent rooms in our home at 20% the market rate, while integrating them into our social life and do volunteer work while we earn passive income through a business/

[whiskeyontherocks]

nothing wrong with it but I haven’t heard of any relationship bucket list
Are we talking a actual bucket list like before you die
Or just goals that you want to pursue with your partner like having a kid or getting married Climbing Everest etc.

[Mr_twoface]

It's totally normal and your right that not everyone rights it down. It's definitely a good way to keep the relationship on fire.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Absolutely, dreaming up a relationship bucket list is as normal as it gets! It's like having a secret recipe for the adventure that love is meant to be. Whether it's penned down or just floating around in your mind, it adds that extra spice of excitement and anticipation to your journey together. Think of it as plotting your very own love story, with twists and high-flying escapades only you two can embark on. Sharing dreams and aspirations not only brings you closer but also keeps the fire of curiosity and growth burning bright. So, whether written or imagined, embracing a bucket list can turn "us" into the most thrilling adventure of all. Keep dreaming big!

[electromagnetic]

Not necessarily a bucket list but things we wanna do or accomplish by a certain time frame. For example: When we turn 35, we said we’d take the year and focus on working 100% remote that way we can tour Africa by car. The goal is to start in Egypt and work east heading on south until we hit South Africa.
Bucket lists gives you opportunities to look forward to new things.

[Kelly6]

@electromagnetic
That’s exactly bucket list

[MsProsperity]

Yeah it’s normal, bucket lists somehow contribute to progress in a relationship

[itsclearlynicholas]

I suppose it's something couples do in their 30s and 30s when they're just, at that age bracket and beyond 🫠😋😛

[itsclearlynicholas]

Lol. 😅

[handsomelad70]

I'm 70, so perhaps for me. You can bet it would have a buxom blonde on it.

[RossyBoi]

No it's not normal. Normal people are single.

[LaurenM1997]

Yeah it’s normal