I keep seeing Q’s like “When should we have sex?” Or “when should I move in?” Whenever the relationship is right for it.
there's no standard metric for any relationship. Go by your gut, right?
I don't fornicate, thus I cannot really speak from experience.
However, since I am here on GaG, I came to realize that the very vast majority of people that do copulate basically have the same routine. Unfortunately, a large of group of those people have deviant practices that others may not have, such as oral and/or anal sex.
The principle is almost always the same and the result invariably identical. Thus, based on those observations, I would say that the fornication procedure is the same for everyone that practices it. There might be some subtleties but at the end, it is always identical.
Now, those that do not copulate when they are intimate may have different variations but their number is definitely not infinite.
I voted the first option, but I think many people are shaped by both mainstream and social medias.
Genetically speaking, since we are all unique, there should be 6 billion shades of what "intimacy" means.
But we are bombarded by strong thoughts of a few famous individuals in the medias, and to a big extent, we are mold into a different person.
"move in?" - in the 1824s absolutely no no. In the 1924, bold ones did. In the 2024, a part of relationship.
"have sex? (premarital)" - in the 1824s is unheard of and sin that burns in hell for eternity. 1924 was a new trend for great lovers. 2024 is "you're still a virgin? OMG!"
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To conclude, the matric kept changing. Regrettably, often by sensational (not necessary practical) articles for commercial purposes.
And sex sells. Hence many are mold to believe that sex is OK outside marriage. Is it? This is a founding topic of GaG.
Sooooooo many variables in each relationship. It's always different.
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Yes, because every couple, like every individual, is different.
There is no common metric for these things.
u that right
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