As everyone is different, do you love your partners differently according to your experience? Do you treat your ex better but as you are hurt by him/her so you love the current less. Or do you love the current more as you learn from experience
Do we love different partners differently?
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To get more specific answers, i would like to know how differently you act and treat the current partner comparing to your previous one? Dose the same person treat different dates differently, like you spend more money on him/her but less on the other when hanging out?
I treated them always them same. Just I would treat any girl that I love. I didn't gave special treatment to try to make up for past mistakes or treated anyone bad to protect my feelings from being hurted in a similar way I had been hurted before. I was just myself with all. I might love the one I am with more, but that is simply because I like her more than any of the previous ones.
I do. I always think I love each new girlfriend more than the last. Each one certainly feels different. With each new girlfriend I learn from my previous experiences and apply that to my future relationship. It might just be that I'm older and wiser with each new love.
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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I do I gain experience from past one so i get to treat the current one better and learn to appreciate him more. Plus i do not believe there is that one person for me and it takes effort to make good relationships.
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Anonymous
(30-35)
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You always live different people for different reasons in my experience. No love is the same but it doesn’t mean it’s necessarily any less.
Yeah I do, it depends on what they are like and what they like. Also I'm always growing so I become more mature in my thinking and ways of doing things too.
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Anonymous
(45 Plus)
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Absolutely! there is different things they do to make us feel loved, that we fall in love with. So that to me makes me love them differently! You get what you give and loves grows!
Yes. I used to be more firm and pushy with my feelings. While some women respond well to that, most will just run away, so I have learned to adopt gentler approaches to expressing love.
Actually I think I do. But it is really based on age and how mature I am now than my previous relationships. Also, the partner and his level of experience and maturity is the key that changed me a lot.
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