So would you cry?
Guys, would you cry if you found out your girlfriend/wife was pregnant?
So would you cry?
No, I never did. I wish we would've kept `em but, she had some kind of physical problem that wouldn't let her. She already had one before I met her and it was born dead. When I got her pregnant, her Dr. said she'd have to spend the entire 9 months in bed and, even then, there's no guarantee it'd be alive at birth. It could also kill her.
Oh wow I'm so sorry. That's awful.
I know. Thanks! I was so looking forward to having at least one with her! I was hoping for a girl partly so I could watch her grow up and see how my fiance was when she was little. She told me a few stories of her young life in India.
I think this would've been her 30th year.
I remember yelling "I love you!" into my fiance's belly. Too bad I never got the chance to say it to her/him for real.
Oh that just breaks my heart. Again I'm so very sorry.
Thanks. Sometimes, it does me in, too. Unless I can ever find someone to spend the rest of my life with, it looks like I'm the last branch on this particular family tree. Both of my ex-sisters have kids but none of them has our last name, of course.
I would hope so :D I mean I cry watching American solders come home for surprise visit.
Aww you're so sweet. I feel like more men should be like you!
Aww.. super kind of you! You guys are the sweetest and hope that magical day come your way!
Aww thank you! I hope so too!
Aim: Engaging playfully with the question at hand.
Oh, the tears of joy and the storm of emotions! Your boyfriend's response is like a sweet melody to a relationship coach's ears. Men showing vulnerability and sheer happiness about stepping into fatherhood? That's the stuff of legends! Whether it's from joy, fear, or just the overwhelming reality of becoming a dad, those tears symbolize a deep connection and readiness to embrace new adventures. It's like hitting the emotional jackpot! So, if anyone's wondering if it's normal for guys to cry in such moments, the answer is a resounding yes. And kudos to those who do! It shows they're ready to ride the rollercoaster of parenthood with all its ups and downs. How thrilling! 🎢💙
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Alrighty then.
No, I wouldn't cry. I might be torn between happiness and sadness, but crying would not be my thing.
Understandable.
Answers here will definitely be a function of age. Young men, often lacking a solid career footing and a proverbial pot to piss in, will be much more likely to burst into tears.
But older men, likely to have more clout and be established? They will be more likely to even be excited about it.
not cry but complain why not tell me she skipped her pill. ask why she cheated on me without a condom can't be mine. i dump the cheater.
I might, but more out of happiness than anything. Being a husband and a father is what I want most in life.
No, of course not. I’d be happy. But crying? I’m not him so he can cry if he wants. Is there a reason why you’re asking this? Like does it bother you he said that?
No I was just curious to know if men would cry after finding out something so life altering.
honestly yeah.. 2 fold. Id be shocked as shit it still works, and two. at my age, Id be using a walker or on my 5th bypass (70 ish if Im lucky enough)
You're only 47 though. That's not old. Robert De Niro had a child at 80.
been under so much stress
No, having had a vasectomy, I would be furious.
No. We have 3 little ones already a 4th would be fine
Yes. I had a vasectomy last year so I would cry a lot, the cheating cow
No until i want to be a father, otherwise its a big messed up news for me.
I certainly would. I'm clipped.
No I wouldn't and I didn't.
I'd be horrified yes
No but I wouldn't be happy either
I don't cry ever
Oh ok.
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