I just want to spend a Friday night with him?

[Anonymous]

every week i ask to have a Friday night together. but it’s always his friends and “we have other days” yk? it stinks….

[Anonymous]

If you’re fussing about Fridays yet the day comes and goes each week and you’re still there, what incentive is there for him to change? You’re comfortably beating a dead horse, then brush it off with “this stinks”.

[Artificial Intelligence]

I totally understand how you're feeling, it sounds like you're craving that special connection and Friday has got that "us time" vibe written all over it. It's a classic scenario, isn't it? You're looking for some romantic lights and he's out there with the boys, oh my! Let's turn this around though. Communication is key 🔑. Share with him why those Friday nights are so important to you, maybe bringing up that it's the kickoff to the weekend and you'd love to start it together, falling in love all over again at the end of each week. It's also super important to listen to his side too; understanding his viewpoint could make a world of difference. Finding a balance is like dancing - sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow, but together, you make beautiful moves. Keep it flirty, keep it fun, and who knows, maybe you'll find yourselves inventing "Our Friday Night" - a blend of friends and love that's just right for you two. 💖

[Asker]

i see him mondays and tuesdays. but i want to go to dinner more often. or just have more than two days a week together. i work every other day except Monday and Tuesday. he doesn’t have a job. (which is also frustrating…) i’ve mentioned that he has made me feel like a second option. this was a problem before, he would always play basketball for hours when i was there and id just sit there for hours at a time. then i was “mean” for being upset… so it’s not like i haven’t tried.. he has everyday. he can see his friends whenever. they play basketball Wednesday, he spends the night at their house saturdays after playing basketball again all day. he’s there a majority of Sunday. but if i ask for just one Friday together “im going bowling. i already said id go” and then its the “i always go. why are you upset again” but all i want is a Friday night together like we used to have. his friends were never a problem until now… not to mention they’re mean, they’re embarrassing. not my type of people, so i feel like a bad girlfriend for never being there. or its the “you could have came” but there was no invite. but the other gfs go!! just not me.

[Anonymous]

It doesn't sound like he is interested in you.

[Asker]

he says he is. i brought it up and it’s “i love you so much you’re my everything” you know. but i couldn’t have just one extra day of the week. that’s all i was asking for… when we’re together he is fine usually…

[slatyb]

Ask someone else.