How do you deal with the ups and downs of a relationship?

[Lynx122]

Are you used to it or does it take a toll on you?

[sheikalana]

It always takes a toll on me because me and my Husband are not used to argue but we we do it always tends to be pretty intense and devastating. We can go months without having an argument then one day we start beefin and things get pretty emotional. But we always find our way to get over it.

[Anonymous]

You have understand ALL women have a bit of crazy in them. But the good women own up to that fact. She knows it and does her best to control it. But a bad woman does not. A bad women will blame YOU for every irrational thought that enters her head. She takes no accountability. If you realize you're with that woman. It's best just to end it and walk away as it will not get better.

[Billlewis]

By keeping my mind on the only thing that ultimately matters. -- pleasing her and making it easier for her to just relax and enjoy herself, and not having to work anymore.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Billlewis. You have to know there are a lot of women who simply are miserable at heart. I have seen so many women that no matter their job, family, income, status; they are still fundamentally miserable people.

[LaurenM1997]

It takes a toll on me quite a bit cause one minute I can be up the next I can be down depends on what’s happened and how I can solve stuff when it’s gone wrong to make it right again like my emotions rn are pretty low I can get anxious or cry or be down

[AI Opinion]

Riding the rollercoaster of love, aren't we? Love is full of peaks and valleys, and each twist turns our hearts in unexpected ways. To navigate the ups and downs, I've learned the power of communication, patience, and humor. It's like having a map in a maze; it doesn't prevent the challenges, but it sure helps in finding your way out (or deeper in love, if you're lucky). It takes a toll, no doubt—emotional whirlwinds do leave one a bit winded. However, with each challenge overcome, our love toolkit just gets bigger and better. Just remember, behind every successful relationship is a story of resilience, learning, and a whole lot of lovebombing after the storm. Let's keep the dialogue open, hearts transparent, and when in doubt, a good laugh can resurrect even the dullest moments. Keep on loving! 🚀💕

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

No one cares what you think, Love Doctor Brad.

[electromagnetic]

I take them as they come and go. Relationships are about working through the hard times and enjoying the easy times. As long as we continue to communicate openly about our thoughts, things naturally get better.

[DishLady]

One day at a time. Everyone has high and low moments (as individuals... and then as couples). You just need to trust yourself and your partner to be able to pull through the downs and enjoy the ups as much as possible.

[Nikki1989]

I have only been in one terrible relationship. The rest were fine, but just were not compatible enough to have a future together. Relationships are really not as complicated as many on here try to make out.

[msc545]

I just suggest a different position. For instance, Doggy is back and forth as opposed to up and down...

[Lynx122]

That's smart :)

[JacobJordan]

By remembering it is never me vs my wife it is my wife and I vs the problem. Too many people think it is one vs the other when it isn't

[KrakenAttackin]

@jacobjordan. You hit the jack pot for a wife. Most Western women are not problem solvers, they are volume raisers. Whenever there is a problem western women will nag, complaint, bitch, and moan; but not be constructive.

[JacobJordan]

@KrakenAttackin which is a huge problem. In our relationship we follow 3 simple rules when it comes to disagreements/problems
1 discuss it civilly and without raised tones
2 never disparage the other or insult/disrespect them
3 once solved it is solved we get over it we connect make sure we are both in a good emotional space so we aren't going to bed angry.

We haven't argued or fought in the entirety of our relationship. Doesn't mean no struggles but it never stopped us working through it together. A relationship is about 2 people working together to make life easier. Instead people think it is a competition. If it is a competition what's the prize? And who are they competing against? Anytime I see a young couple arguing I say "excuse me I hear you arguing and I have a question. What is the goal of this?" Nearly everytime they both sit their and realize they are arguing for literally no reason. I then tell them "it is not you vs him or you vs her. It is both of you vs the problem. You solve the problem together" interesting to see those same couples later. Some of them take it to heart and night and day difference.

[KrakenAttackin]

@jacobjordan. Good stuff.

[LiamJHayden]

I'm kind of bad at this and when it becomes too much drama I end it. To me, being single is better than being in a poor or mediocre relationship.

[KrakenAttackin]

@LiamJHayden. That's where I am now. I have minimal patience for neurotic bullshit.

[NathanDavis]

never had one that extreme... and most likely I would not stay in one

[itsclearlynicholas]

I stay out of them like I stay out of rollercoasters 🎢🎪🎢

[laly520]

there isn't anything serious

a convo always solve it all

[SotiCoto]

I don't. I quit. And I reckon I'm better off for it.

[Jamie05rhs]

If your relationship has too many ups and downs, then they're probably not the right one.

[FuqUFggt]

If they ain't going up and down on this dick, there is no relationship

[WhitneySnow]

I’m used to it. Doesn’t bother me.

[DreamLife7]

I dont lol 😆 😂