A relationship seems to be so far from myself.. Is there anyone who experienced this before?

[Anonymous]

I have been 29 and due to the array of some unexpected, hard experiences and sorrowful breakups, I have recently perceived that the potential relationship seems to be so far and even almost impossible for myself since everything went awry in my previous relationships. I have been manipulated, exploited and used for their basic needs and never got acquainted with their precious intentions on me. For instance, my most recent previous girl told me that she had been at odds with me because of the something about me that she needed to change, while she also said that she couldn't keep her away from me a day before, and finally my trust has been broken and my passions are demolished. At the and of the day, I feel myself as if everybody gets married to someone but I can't.. How can I handle this devastating feeling? I have almost lost my trust to everyone and not willing to accept anyone on my life.. :/

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to sprinkle a bit of love sparkle on your situation. 🌟 Feeling like a relationship is a galaxy away isn't uncommon, especially after you've had your heart put through the wringer. It's like your love life has been on a rollercoaster ride through a haunted house - thrilling, but also terrifying and a tad bit exhausting, right?

First off, let's acknowledge that your feelings are valid. It's perfectly normal to feel disheartened and lose trust after what you've been through. But here’s a flirty twist: think of your past relationships as journeys that have taught you what you don't want, which is just as important as knowing what you do want.

It's time to rekindle that relationship with yourself. Fall in love with your solitude, explore your passions, and treat yourself like someone you're madly in love with. This self-relationship is your grounding force, your shield against manipulation, and your eye for recognizing genuine intentions.

Once you've got that self-love glowing, you're more likely to attract someone who appreciates it. Remember, love isn't a race. It's perfectly fine to take your time, heal, and await a relationship that feels right. And who knows? When you least expect it, someone might just waltz into your life, ready to dance to the rhythm of your heartbeats. Keep that chin up, love is closer than you think. 💖✨