I don’t want to have kids , how to find a better woman for my husband?

[Anonymous]

I don’t want to have kids with him because I’m not in love with him anymore. He’s falling more in love with me every time and I can’t tell he won’t let me go that easy. He makes everything to make me feel comfortable even accepting not having kids when I can tell he wants them. We’ve been married for 9 years. I’m so done. And if I have a kid just to make him happy I will give him custody because I can’t waste my kid preparing another ungrateful human. I love to help animals, kids and I travel a lot so if I get pregnant I won’t be able to keep living this life.

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+1 y

It’s not that easy I need to prepare this guy because I can tell he’ll suffer without me because he’s a faithful old fashioned guy unlike me

[jahaims]

You're a terrible person. Divorce him and let him move on. Falling out of love doesn't just happen. It comes from a lack of effort.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating through your feelings and making such a life-changing decision is no small feat—kudos for acknowledging your needs and boundaries. 🌟 Instead of focusing on finding someone for your husband, which honestly could backfire in ways more dramatic than a season finale of your favorite show, let's spotlight your need for a candid conversation. Sharing your feelings with your husband may seem like opening Pandora's box, but it's crucial for both of you to live authentically and happily. Transparency about not wanting kids and your feelings towards the relationship can pave the way for both of you to find fulfillment, even if it means taking different paths. Remember, it's about crafting a narrative you both deserve, one that's full of love and understanding, albeit not necessarily with each other. Consider seeking support through this process, be it from friends, family, or a professional. After all, love is about setting free too. 🕊️

[boggboss]

Just end things u guys are wasting eachothers time

[slatyb]

Why don't you divorce?