I think I would prefer to be a single Dad, like I want kids or at least a kid but I don't think I want a woman around permanently?

[Anonymous]

Is this a possibility, like maybe she could die in childbirth or something. How can this happen? should I pick up like a transient person or some one that is definitely going to die? basically someone that will be fine just leaving after like a year or so would be okay.

Great Idea , you can achieve this and some women will be down for it

This will never happen

This might happen but it actually will be horrible

Bad idea you can't be a good Dad

not sure

further explanation

[SnowedIn]

I think you have never had a child. You have no idea the amount of time a child needs. Asking to be a single parent is absurd in the extreme, even for this site.

[Asker]

true I have never had a child so maybe it is more difficult than I think.

[Adam1978]

Depends on your country but in some places men can adopt alone. I wouldn't throw down the money for that in my country, there would be someone milking you fees while still preventing you from actually doing it.

[Screenwriter]

IF you don't want involvement with a woman, why not adopt?

[Asker]

I don't think single men can adopt... maybe i'm wrong about that. Plus then i'm not related to the kid so that is also not ideal.

[Screenwriter]

Single people can adopt. They simply have to have good homes and good personalities, etc. Why does the kid have to be related to you? OK... you could hire a surrogate who uses your sperm and someone else's egg.

[KrakenAttackin]

As a single Dad, I can tell you the world automatically will think you are a pedo, but fuck them. Be the best Dad you can be.

[Asker]

I can't believe people would think that. I'm not a Dad yet but I imagine it would be really cool to one day be a dad. I just don't think I'd necessarily care about a wife as much. How did you become a single Dad? Did your wife just jump ship?

[KrakenAttackin]

We divorced and I felt like a ton of lead was lifted from my chest.

[Anonymous]

Surrogacy or adoption.