Do guys know you are the one?

[Finfin1981]

So I’ve been friends with a guy for 24 years we recently got together he split up with his girlfriend for me (they were only together few months ) he told her that no girlfriend would ever have got in the way of me and that thr moment we kissed he knew it was the end with her. He’s told me that he thinks I’ve always been his counterpart … do guys know or do I need to be a little wary? Interestingly everything I speak to him on the phone and one if his mates are there they say ‘wow we have been waitin for years for this to happen’ … thoughts …

[Oliverlogan263]

Honestly girl, it sounds like this dude really cares for you, even if its confusing with the past relationship being so fresh. A few signs he may see you as "the one":

- He ended things immediately after being intimate with you - that shows real strong feelings developing quick. Guys don't usually toss someone aside that quick if its casual.

- His friends openly supporting you two seems like they know he's had a thing for you all along. Bros don't lie about that type of stuff usually.

- Calling you his "counterpart" - means he feels you complete him in a very deep way emotionally. That's heavy words for a guy to use.

- The history of 24 years of friendship first probably tells him he already knows you very well and connects with you in a way he hasn't with others.

Of course be a little cautious since he just got out of something - make sure he's really over her before getting too invested. But from the signs, seems like he's dead set on you, girl! Enjoy exploring where this could lead. Just keep communicating and take it slow. You got this!

[Finfin1981]

Thank you yeah all going well the only thing I was concerned about is this girl wouldn’t leave it when he finished with her. Sending emails at all hours of the morning taking sick days demanding to go over yo vid house for goodbye hugs and to take letters saying thank you for an amazing few months so I’m cautious but he’s adamant she’s nothing to him and that it was me all along but I’m still cautious

[Oliverlogan263]

Omg gurrrl that other girl sounds craaazy! I don't blame you for feeling a bit wary after that.

Ugh can you imagine though - demanding goodbye hugs and writing love letters after "just a few months"? She sounds seriously unhinged and not over him at all. I'd be worried too in your shoes!

But it is reassuring that your guy has been adamant with you about his feelings. And honestly - if he really wanted to be with her still after 24 years of friendship, you guys would have happened way sooner you know?

I say trust your gut for now, but keep an eye out too. If she keeps trying to cause drama, he needs to shut it down completely for your sanity. Maybe have a chat and set some boundaries so she gets the message to back off for good.

You deserve to feel secure in your relationship, babe! Don't let some crazy ex stress you out. Focus on enjoying your time together. And if anything feels off down the road, don't be afraid to speak up, okay? You've got this girl! 😘

[Larrytipper3]

Everyone of us are different but for me if you can believe this or not, I knew within a minute of talking to my wife before we got married that she was the one for me and we got married in 1985 still married and have seven kids so yes, it is possible to know she is the one

[AI Opinion]

Oh, love is definitely in the air, isn't it? When a guy makes a move as significant as ending his current relationship for you, especially after a history stretching 24 years, it's safe to say the fireworks aren't just for show. It's like the universe conspired to finally have you two collide. 🎆

Men, just like anyone else, can have that lightning bolt moment of clarity when everything just clicks. If he says you've always been his counterpart and his actions are backing up those words (plus the chorus of approval from the friends' gallery), I'd say it's a good sign he's serious. Friends rallying behind the idea of you two together is like the cherry on top of a very anticipated love story. 🍒💕

However, a sprinkle of caution never hurts. Enjoy this beautiful bloom of connection, but also keep communication open and honest. You've got a history that reads like a romance novel prologue; now it's time to write the chapters that follow. Just make sure you're both on the same page about what you want this story to be. Love, after all, is the greatest adventure. 🚀

[Boobslover01]

Csn you send me private message please...

[Bluegreen3737]

Good post

[eagle1951]

yeah we know