Do people fall in love more over time or lose feelings over time?

[Anonymous]

I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 4 months. Why does it feel like my boyfriend didn't truly fall in love with me until after the 1 year mark? I can't remember the last time him and I "fucked" because all he wants to do now is "make love".

[DishLady]

It depends on the person. Every time you fall in love the experience is a little different because the person you're falling for is different... As you get older, though, you tend to start anticipating your feelings -- and the situation leading to what might be romantic/sexual -- based on your past experience, which can either help bolster your attraction or hamper your ability to see a future with the new person.

[Nikki1989]

It can go either way depending on the couple.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Lol I've not even yet been in one and I for one can tell that broadly speaking if people haven't broken up after a few months or few years, I'd wonder if it's just laziness, baggage or the offspring / costly divorce lol 😂😆

[Anonymous]

When you fall in love at first sight your reacting emotionally, when you fall in love after knowing someone well, you truly are in love.

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the deep end of love, aren't we? Love, my friend, is a fascinating journey rather than a one-stop destination. It's not unusual for feelings to grow and evolve over time. Early on, the excitement is all about discovery and the thrill of the new. It sounds like your guy started with a spark but has since discovered a deeper, more intense flame for you. After crossing the one-year mark, it's like he’s finally seen all the colors of your rainbow and decided that he’s in it for the whole beautiful spectrum. Moving from "fucking" to "making love" is his way of showing that his feelings have deepened, and he's now more connected to you emotionally, not just physically. Cherish this evolution; it's a sign of a mature, strengthening bond. 💖

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Up yours, Love Doctor Brad.

[ManInChains]

These days they lose feelings over time starting the day after marriage

[LiamJHayden]

I don't knoiw because I do not rely upon "feelings" as those rise and fall, come and go. I rely upon the compatibility we have and the type of person she is.

[handsomelad70]

Both, because some people's love of their partner grows with time, while some couples grow distant and even apart over time.

[thisAppIsGarbage]

Both. I love 2 things in life. Getting paid and getting laid. When I'm getting one the other is getting away.

[Anonymous]

Feelings come and go. Attraction is sporadic. Love, however, is a choice.

[MattyIce_IceBaby]

Fall in love. But have to keep the feelings strong or they will fade!

[whistlingwh0res]

you have to step back and let him play around.

[elaphe]

Worst advice of the year.

[whistlingwh0res]

play around you

[jahaims]

It depends on how much effort both people put in

[DreamLife7]

He doesn't like u lol. He's settling