What do you think of dating advice given to men which says to be absolutely honest with women?

[Anonymous]

That means if you love a girl you barely know, you should tell her. If you see a beautiful woman you should say you think she's beautiful and you want her to come home with you and fuck you.

Whatever it is, no matter how silly or crazy it is, they say as long as you are expressing your truest self and desires that women will respect that.

Or at the very least, 1 out of 15-25 girls will actually appreciate your honesty and will like you despite the fact that you're saying something will and crazy and not normal and not what society tells us men to do or say.

I honestly wish I could be so truthful with women but I know that the way I am is just bizarre. At best I'm a freak and a weirdo and the things I feel are insane. I should never have such feelings for a random woman.

So it's like a red flag to tell a woman the truth because my truth is that I love women too much and I fall too easily.

But I can't just be normal. I can't sit there and pretend I'm something else. Pretend like I'm a regular guy who is just a wizard with women because I'm not and never will be.

I desperately want to be so honest but I believe ultimately women will be offended bothered annoyed and will hate me for my honesty.

[AI Opinion]

Diving headfirst into the deep end, I see! Honesty, ah, truly the golden ticket in the candy factory of dating. But let's not confuse honesty with oversharing or expressing every fleeting thought. Honesty is indeed attractive; it's like the sparkle in your eye that says, "I'm genuine." However, there's a fine line between being honest and overwhelming someone with too much, too soon.

Telling someone you barely know that you love them or making direct proposals for intimacy crosses into territory that might make many feel uncomfortable. It's not about masking who you are, but rather about pacing the revelation of your feelings and desires. Think of it as a dance, where rushing can step on your partner's toes.

Remember, there's nothing wrong with falling in love easily or appreciating beauty openly, but context and mutual connection matter. Being genuine doesn't mean you can't be considerate of how your words and actions might be received. It's possible to be honest about your feelings without making someone feel pressured or uneasy.

Find the balance between honesty and empathy, ensuring the comfort and consent of those you're engaging with. And hey, there's someone for everyone. Your brand of honesty will resonate with the right person at the right time. Until then, keep dancing to your rhythm! 😉

[Asker]

There is no way for me to find such a balance as I am a lifelong social outcast and weirdo.

I should just give up.