Are you the type of person that when you're DONE with someone, you are DONE and don't look back no matter how small the reason was?

[sage2021]

I wonder about people that live by that motto they have. Sometimes the other person has no clue why the person is DONE with them and they never know why and the other person never contacts them again.
What makes people do that to people? Are people like a disposable eating utensils that once you're done with your meal, the utensils are used up and thrown out when the person is DONE using them?
People should mean more than that. Not everyone is replaceable with someone else.
I believe some people deserve a second chance and maybe we all need to learn how to give them one.
This is my personal feeling on the subject.

[Finchie40]

Only selfish people choose to live that way , they think their shit doesn’t stink and think they were put on Earth to be catered to , never admitting that they can be wrong , they are always right , selfish people shouldn’t get into relationships with anyone because they only care about themselves and what is best for themselves , they string people along for their selfish benefit , until they meet someone else that they feel is better than their current partner. They only like the convenience of people but sadly they don’t have a genuine heart. I take commitment seriously , My partner becomes my top priority over everyone else in this world , I will treat her like Gold if she treats me like Gold , if she chooses to walk away , I let her go , we can’t force anyone to love us and to be by our side , all we can do is treat someone the same way you want to be treated in return , it won’t always be perfect , so it’s best to find someone that has your back like you have theirs , someone that isn’t selfish that actually has a caring heart , that makes you their priority as well. Never stay with someone that treats you like a convenience, I made that mistake a few times , Someone that truly loves you and wants to be with you will stand by your side no matter what obstacles come your way , they will be your partner , not your enemy. Someone that loves you will not walk away , they will fix whatever is broken between the both of you , unless you cheated on them than that’s a different story lol

[Anonymous]

no i like to repair relationships and give people chances because I'm not an asshole. 🤣 There's a difference is making mistakes and choosing to be a toxic person, and I won't give up on someone for making mistakes.

[sage2021]

And that's the way it should be.

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't break the relationship up because of small things in the first place... and before I make such a decision I take my time to retrospect and rethink

but if such a decision was made... I don't see any reason to return to what was earlier because it obviously didn't work

[FunkyMonkee]

No, I like to hang onto my friendships/relationships.

[sage2021]

@FunkyMonkee
I'm the same way. People mean a lot to me. Well, the one's I care about anyway.

[FunkyMonkee]

Exactly.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes that's me when I'm done I'm done. If the relationship didn't work no need to be friends it's not fair to that new person in you life. Plus you can't move forward if your holding on to the past

[dudeinohio]

Absolutely... move forward, never backwards

[Nice222]

Yes very much so.

[eagle1951]

pretty much