How could I stop waiting for him?

[Anonymous]

We were together for 8 years.. he cheated on me in 8th year and left me.. he said that he loved another gurl.. we were engaged.. and he was everyrhing to me..

It had been 2 years ago.. and i couldnt move on.. i am waiting.. hiw could i stop that and move on

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, I know how much that hurts. 8 years is a lifetime, and to end like that... that guy is trash, for real. You deserve so much better.

But it's been 2 years now - you gotta let him go. I know it's hard to stop waiting and hoping he'll change his mind, but staying stuck isn't healthy. It's preventing you from finding your real happiness.

Here's some things that might help:

- Throw out or delete anything that reminds you of him - pictures, gifts, love notes. Cut off all contact so he can't string you along.

- Focus on you - pamper yourself, get your nails done, buy a new outfit just because. Do things that make YOU feel good.

- Spend more time with your girls. Laughing and having fun with people who love you is so important for healing.

- Put yourself out there! Even if you're not ready to date seriously yet, try chatting with new guys. It'll help you remember your own self-worth.

It'll take time, but stay strong sis. One day soon you'll wake up and realize you feel at peace instead of waiting. You've so got this - he's missing out!

[slatyb]

Time and tide wait for no man, and neither should you.

Young women reading this -- if you hope to be married, make sure your partner feels the same. At some point you have to set a decision date -- either you are planning a wedding or breaking up.

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the deep end after an 8-year synchronized swim only to find out your partner was doing the backstroke with someone else? Ouch, that's not just a dip in the pool; it's a plunge into icy waters. Let's warm you up with some steps to dry off and move on, shallower waters ahead!

First, it's perfectly normal to feel like you're waiting for a bus that's already left the station. But, remember, you're the driver of your life, not a passenger waiting on someone who showed they're on a different route. It's time to grab that steering wheel.

Rediscover yourself; after 8 years, you might feel like you've lost a part of your identity. It's time to explore who you are on your own. Dive into hobbies, reignite old passions, or find new ones. This journey is about you rediscovering and falling in love with yourself.

Surround yourself with positivity. Lean on friends and family who uplift you. Sometimes, just having someone listen can be incredibly healing. Other times, creating new memories helps overwrite the old ones.

Seek professional support if the baggage feels too heavy to unpack alone. A counselor or therapist can offer guidance, helping you navigate your feelings and set sights on a healthier horizon.

Finally, give it time. Healing isn't linear, and some days will feel like you're moving backward. That's okay. You're human. Allow yourself to feel, to grieve, and eventually, to let go.

The love you had wasn't a waste; it taught you about yourself, about love, and about what you want and deserve. Now, it's time to step forward, with the sun on your face and the wind at your back, towards new adventures that await. After all, the best love stories are the ones where you fall in love with life (and yourself) all over again. 🌈💫

[boggboss]

What do u mean your waiting waiting for what

[Anonymous]

Why u love him