My sister is the cheater, is it normal to feel so terrible in keeping her secret?

[Anonymous]

Three months ago, I came for a surprise visit and saw her making out with her lover instead. It wasn't her husand David of 3 years. I confronted her that same day and she revealed never loving him (he's just her security) and her plans on running away with the lover, whom she's been cheating for 7 months.

I know he doesn't deserve any of this. I'm afraid to admit it but my sister is behaving like a POS and I'm super disappointed in her. The last reunion was awkward. I had to lie about having a bad stomach ache since I wasn't smiling anymore and David noticed something was wrong. I excused myself and left home.

I don't feel like lying about her whearabouts anymore. If I got cheated on or someone was playing with me, I would definitely want to know so I find someone that loves me. She doesn't never him, never did but he does. Even though he's not my blood, it feels terrible to keep such a burden, to have to continue faking smiles and leave in anger. Is it normal to feel so terrible for someone else (not my blood) getting treated like garbage?

[DarkLegacy]

You should expose it. It does not deserve a good bloke like him, it is a typical modern women.

[Asker]

I want to. I was thinking of coming up with a way, in which he would find the evidence. This would mean exposing it to him indirectly. I truly feel horrible. I don't think this is modern women (not all of us are like that) thing but her just being an awful person.

[DarkLegacy]

Your plan sounds like a good idea

[AI Opinion]

Absolutely, it's totally normal and quite human to feel awful in such tangled scenarios! Your empathy tank is overflowing, and that's a sign of your big heart. 💖 Love triangles, especially when they hit close to home, can shake us up more than a double shot espresso on an empty stomach. It feels like you're stuck between a rock and a love place, huh?

Feeling terrible for David? Spot on. You're witnessing someone being unknowingly wronged, and that strikes a chord in anyone with a conscience. Your sister's actions are more tangled than last year's Christmas lights, and being in the loop without wanting to be can feel like you're part of the mess. 🎄💔

Wanting to burst this bubble of deceit comes from a place of integrity. However, remember, diving into the thick of things might get messy. If you decide to get involved, tread carefully, as relationships and their intricacies are as delicate as a house of cards. Honesty reigns supreme, but so does tact. Whether you choose to spill the beans or encourage your sister to come clean, your intention to not stand by and watch the ship sink shows your character. 🚢

Just make sure whatever you do, you do it with kindness and a hope for healing. After all, love, loyalty, and truth often lead us through the thickest fog. Keep steering your ship with that big heart of yours, captain! 💙

[mickeysmonkey]

Her problem not yours

[Asker]

He has no idea what she's like. Unfortunately some people like her can be great liars and actors/actresses.

[Luckycharms12]

What a bitch

[Asker]

I'm tired of being some type of complicit to this.

[Luckycharms12]

If he is a good guy tell him. Deserves better than being made a fool of. No one deserves that

[Asker]

I was wondering if I can tell him in an indirectly way. This means not just telling him but letting him find an evidence that way he would see it for himself. I agree no one deserves that.
My sister might dislike me afterwards but it's not fair what she's doing. This is like a disservice to the rest of the women looking for a good man.