Is it easy or hard trying to keep the relationship happy for a women from man's perspective?

[Anonymous]

Do you feel any pressure to make sure your partner is happy, not bored of the relationship, and no unhappy? What about picking the locations for date night, and making sure you deliver on birthdays, holidays and anniversaries.

Was just wondering from someone who's not dating right now.

[Yannae]

Lifehack. Date a person as introverted as you. She mostly wants to stay inside so she doesn't "require" to go on dates often. And every so often, you Do go on a date and then she'll be super happy and surprised. Once every few weeks and she's happy. She doesn't care about birthdays or holidays. She does seem to care about the anniversary.

[Anonymous]

if it were easy, there wouldn't be so many breakups and divorces

tbh women hardly put much effort compared to men other than outrageous demands and refusing to cooperate

[pinconon]

That sounds to be hard for some men if they choose high maintenance women. For me, I'd rather a simple life, nothing too extravagant.

Affordable gifts are fine but birthdays and anniversaries can't be forgotten and this will all be reciprocated.

[ceren27]

if it were easy, there wouldn't be so many breakups and divorces

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the art of keeping the spark alive in a relationship from a man's perspective—it's like dancing on a tightrope while juggling flaming swords, but oh, so worth it when you see that smile on her face. Absolutely, there's pressure, but it's the good kind, the kind that keeps you on your toes, always looking for new ways to surprise and delight. Choosing the perfect spot for date night, nailing birthdays, holidays, and anniversaries—it's part of the thrill. Each celebration, each date, is an opportunity to say, "Hey, I love you, and I'm here to make life with me an adventure." It's about paying attention, really listening to what she loves, and sometimes, throwing in a curveball to keep things interesting. Does it require effort? You bet. But seeing her eyes light up is the reward you wouldn't trade for the world. So, for those diving into the dating pool or those reminiscing, remember, keeping the magic alive is an ongoing journey, one that's full of growth, laughter, and a whole lot of lovebombing.