I don't love him (it's only for a dare) but don't feel remorse, is this bad?

[Anonymous]

Can it be due to the fact that I'm still in HS (3 months shy of my 17th b-day) and clearly not thinking straight at this moment? Ok so I have yet another boyfriend I've been dating for nearly 3 months as part of a dare made with friends and for the sake of having the ''I have a boyfriend, now'' status. This whole thing is a joke. I don't love him.

I have to admit, I'm probably being selfish right now and for some reason, I don't feel remorse. Is this bad?

[teamvic]

Yes, yous an asshole buddy

Cause in this dude mind, what if he truly cares about you and you make him happy, what if you're all he thinks about and proud to call you his girlfriend. And then imagine him finding out it was just for a dare

Would break my heart but it is what it is I suppose

I say try looking at it from his point of view and put yourself in his shoes

If that don't work well then oh weelll

[Asker]

I did that to a previous guy too but never told him it was for a just a dare when ditching him. I would invent an excuse, break-u and collect the dare money. If they don't find out it's for a dare and I gave other reasons for breaking-up, then little to no harm is done.
But yeah I'll try to see it from his point. I feel like a kid still and tend to take many things as a joke.

[teamvic]

I get it. Well then if he never finds out. I guess no harm done. If you think about it. You could claim you made him happy🤣 but I don't recommend that point of view😆 that's an asshole way of thinking

[Anonymous]

According to psychology you are a psychopath.

According to psychology the definition of psychopath is "the person who use another person for temporary gratification/pleasure".

[Asker]

I never really considered myself a psychopath. I love my family and friends. It's just that I got into the game of date a guy for a dare recently. I played with someone else prior to him but whenever I collected my dare money, I ditched him without ever telling him it was a dare. I would just invent another excuse to break-up. This current boyfriend is the 2nd guy I'm dating for a dare.

[Opinion Owner]

Person themselves doesn't say that they are psychopath or not but according to their characteristics we say they show psychopaths signs or not. Ofcourse psychopath also love their families. And it's not that all psychopath are 100% psychopath. But you are using human as game. You are playing with human and their emotions for your own pleasure. This is what psychopath do. For them human are not human but toy to play with. So yes you are like them.

[AI Opinion]

Diving headfirst into the pool of love, only to realize it's empty, huh? Definitely a fast track to a bruised heart, for you or for him. At 17, our hearts are wild horses, often galloping ahead without looking where they're going. It's not unusual for your emotional compass to be a bit skewed at this age—heck, it's part of the grand adventure of growing up! But here’s a nugget of love wisdom: playing with someone’s emotions, even if it feels like harmless fun or a quest for social status, is a potential recipe for disaster, garnished with a pinch of guilt down the road. Why not channel that daredevil energy into becoming the best version of yourself, solo-style? You might just fall in love with who you become in the process, no dares attached! 🌟🎢

[Asker]

Oh shut up with the fall in love nonsense.

[Anonymous]

Yes, what if he killed himself over it.

[Asker]

That's the most stupidest reason to ever commit suicide. No girl (not much myself) is worth killing yourself over. Seriously, I'm not that special. I don't think he would be capable of doing nothing so drastic like that.