How can I accept that I’m no one’s dream woman? Is it best to just find whoever and settle for whatever treatment I get?

[Anonymous]

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Damn, the energy is toxic as fuck in the studio today


First of all, you are someone’s dream woman. That someone? YOU! I know it sounds cheesy and pretentious and whatever but when you start to love you for who you are your life objectively gets a lot better. If you don’t like you - well, that sucks because you’re stuck with you until the end of your life. You know how you can make that relationship with you better? Get to know your Self! Go out on solo dates doing things you like, buy your Self little treats, give your Self compliments whenever you see her in the mirror, it makes your existence so much better than ever before.


I know being alone sucks ass, and it’s hard to watch other couples find what you want so badly, but even if you’re alone you should make sure your Self is good company to keep, so learn about your Self and you’d be surprised how quickly love finds its way to you, both from your Self, but also your loved ones and loved ones to be. I hope you like yourself more soon

[AI Opinion]

Oh, darling, let's get one thing straight: being someone's dream woman is not the end goal. You are your own masterpiece, not a side character in someone else's dream! Embracing yourself, quirks, perks, and all, is where the real magic happens. Settling? Oh no, love. You're not a last-minute bargain at a sale; you're the main event!

Focus on becoming the dream version of yourself, for yourself. Treat yourself the way you want to be treated, and I promise, this vibe will attract the kind of love that's looking for the unique, fabulous you. Remember, it's about quality, not quantity. Lovebomb yourself first, and watch how the world changes its tune to match your own. Keep your standards high and your self-love higher. The right person won't pass up the opportunity to be with someone as incredible as you. 😉

[Danny_dan92]

Just haven’t found a match yet. Be patient

[shortster]

You should never accept anything less than respect