Since I can't get who I want, should I just start getting comfortable being alone for good?

[Anonymous]

Obviously im not pretty enough

[RavVid]

Or rationally review what you want.

I like slender girls. C cup breasts would be great but not many girls are slender with C cups. Is slender or C cups more important to me? It's slender so I will 'settle' for slender with B cups. You have to be realistic is my point.

Every quality you want reduces the pool of suitable men or women by about 1/3. So the number of suitable men is roughly = male population * (1/3) power N where N is the number of qualities you require. At 17 requirements, it leaves one man in the US qualifying.

Of course men get a vote too, so the one suitable man in the US might reject you for not being slender with C cups.

So either get your wants down to realistic levels or get comfortable with no man qualifying.

[RavVid]

Thanks for a MHO

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for the heart the heart wants what the heart wants & unfortunately sometimes the heart can’t always have what it truly desires & sometimes hearts do get broken.

As for life I always say if you never try you will never know & as for you I think you shouldn’t give up on trying.

As for love it’s a wonderful thing & as for love it can kick you in the ass when you least expect it.

As for our planet there are over eight billion people on it & as for your special someone they’re waiting to be found & who knows maybe that special someone will find you.

Don’t give up!

[Simslover92]

I think you should definitely be comfortable with being by yourself and focusing on cultivating yourself and I'm speaking for myself as well when I say this because only then when you least expect it, you may get who you want.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If being comfortable being alone will make you stop shitting on yourself, go for it

[Asker]

Im a realist

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Lmao no you’re not

[Asker]

Isn't this situation not describing a realistic? What am I supposed to do? I am just accepting my situation

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Is it realistic to expect a partner or is it entitlement? Just calm down, learn to like yourself and enjoy your own company. You’ll be much happier overall

[Nik1hil]

How about you negotiate!..

Instead of trying to get who you want!.. Mr. A

How about you accept who is available to you Mr. B, with a Condition if the Person you want Mr. A is available, you will leave Mr. B him for that Mr. A Guy!..

Make this condition clear to Mr. B from beginning, this way, you will have Someone Mr. B while that someone won't feel betrayed because he knows it's not forever!.

[Anonymous]

Well the reality of it is you’re much older. A lot of men don’t want women who are older. I don’t know what your lifestyle was like when you were younger, but a lot of women want to live their life, party, maybe sleep w numerous men, be a career women, etc, etc. Then they hit a certain age, around your age finally realizing I want a parnfer, kids, a home. By then that opportunity has passed most women at that age. It may not even be your looks. Maybe it’s your attitude.

[Nikki1989]

You are way older than her Grampa.

[Opinion Owner]

@Nikki1989 what does that have to do a what I said. The stupid of a lot of women to just throw something out there irrelevant that has no logic or bearing on what was said.

[Brady]

Yes, I am a guy but I want 2b alone. Freedom, not hav 2 worry about your so throwing away, losing your things as can happn.

But what if you're in troubl n their the only 1 there? Haven't thought of gettin sonethin like Life Alert yet.

[Anonymous]

That is my current strategy. I'd rather be alone than with the wrong person. My problem isn't due to my attractiveness, but my ineptitude of social skills.

[YourExLover69]

You think the same way I think nowadays. We both in same situation. I accepted fate😊

[Sam1133]

Be happy in what you get