I know I need to make some dramatic changes if I don’t want to be alone, but I don’t know what to do?

[Anonymous]

i’m not sure exactly where I should live. I’m in suburban Central Jersey but I’ve never really been happy here. At least not for a very long time. I work remotely. My job is technically in NYC but I haven’t been to my office in almost 3 years. I have thought of living near there just to meet more people but I’ve also got political ambitions and because I am conservative that’s not the best place for me. I’ve really never had a relationship though and I’m 33 and a few months from pushing a larger number. I don’t wanna wake up in another three years and be alone. I need to be more assertive when talking to women, I need to change my living situation, but I don’t know what to do. I need to get involved in activity groups where I can meet people. I know I need to do these things to really help my odds. I’m just so confused.

[icedragoom]

In order to help your self get out there more start with your hobbies you work from home very often so focus on the hobbies that get you out of the house. Or you can try and go and learn something new say go to a cooking or amdance class girls both like a guy who knows how to dance and cook and even if you know how to cook no shame in going and learning new recipes. After you have that done take a look at your wardrobe and go out shopping for some new cloths nothing suit and tie but something stylish a nice set of clothes that make you look good is a great conference booster when talking to girls

[SnowedIn]

I think, honestly, you need to make some choices. All your goals are NOT compatible. Personally, I think you focus on New York and its metro area. There are a gazillion women there. You already have the job. The rest of it is irrelevant. If you pursue the political stuff, etc., you WILL wake up alone. Something in your list of wants/goals has to give.

[Asker]

Most politicians have wives?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

If you have my luck, you'll finally meet the love of your life, spend the next 6 years building an amazing life together, then come home one day and find her dead on the floor in a pool of blood.

It doesn't matter what you do in life or who you find, it will always find a way to fuck you in the ass and make you wish you were dead

[chicosuave]

Become a passport bro. That's what I'm gonna do in the next couple of years. Learn a new important language. i found it to be super easy to find a girlfriend in the Eastern world. I don't know why women in the west are so complicated. They want the top g guys. Guys who don't give a dam about them. Go online and learn about it

[slatyb]

Get some counseling. Consider m moving to a more conservative city?