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How far should you plan ahead in a new LDR? (Page 8)

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  • leva532
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    I've not anything like that maybe it's great and work for the peoples.

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  • peaceeee
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    In a new long-distance relationship it’s best to plan a little ahead but not too far.

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  • NervousIndividual
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    6 mo

    I have never been in a long distance relationship and so I don't know what would make sense.

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  • Deserter3
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    Idfk, I just wish to stop seeing this question pop up, it has been months!

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  • cavedweller1973
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    Depends on how strongly you feel about the person

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  • IJeremy
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    Xper 2 Age: 30
    8 mo

    Depends on how far away and how often you see each other but I'd say monthly as an average

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  • Lachito12
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    9 mo

    I really needed to see the responses here. It’s been eye opening.

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  • MariannaNst
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    9 mo

    LDR usually don't workout so people don't really follow up

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  • lizzobeans
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    depends on the time you have, focus on other things too i’d say

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  • WishiwazDgrl
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    Guess it would depend on how far they lived and both of y'all's schedules

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  • Max521
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    A year, if I understand your question correctly

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  • sodomanie
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    depend on the relationship, and both need to do some steps for it. but i can do a lot

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  • CuteMommy
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    I have been in LDR before... We used to meet every 6months

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  • TwinkleStars03
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    Monthly probably. Set online dates, video calls, voice calls, etc.

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  • samsniffies
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    I wouldn't plan ahead. He/she probably has a significant other they are hiding from you.

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  • Doshgkin
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    I don’t do LDRs I’m not 13 years old anymore

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  • Spiceuplife
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    Why so longre-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

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  • InfiniteExplorer
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    It Could Happen in 1 Year America is a Huge Country

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  • Jpie555
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    Not very far… life is way too unpredictable and as it’s said, man plans and god laughs

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  • yes_goddess
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    Who knows? That's why airlines charge more for impulsive decisions.

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  • HH1488
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    If you have to pay money to see them, you shouldn't se them.

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  • bertadefor
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    Hi I’m 34 years single from Ghana and I’m looking for ldr that will lead to marriage

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  • thiccums33
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    My suggestion would be to immediately plan for a break up

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  • Bubblegum69
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    It’s an ashamed there ain’t a button to dislike these 🤡?

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  • Anonymous
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    Just go week by week I think and see how it goes.

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    I keep this question all week... go away from me this thread... so I paste this as to go... don't know about question... sorry

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  • jennyPuss
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    all the way to the end

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  • Anonymous
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    LDR do not work. If you think you can stop sun from setting, please go ahead and try.

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  • Anonymous
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    Things change so much, it's nice to have a goal for 5 years down the line but planning can be a month to month thing.

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  • PinkSchmetterling
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    Xper 4 Age: 25 , mho 39%
    18 d

    Let me know when you figure it out lol

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  • Taylor_C
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    Don't plan. Just keep an open mind.

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  • Anonymous
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    Plan to get married and get old together on the day you enter the relationship

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  • Anonymous
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    Obama's mother planed ahead to fuck some indonrsian and nigerian

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  • Paige90
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    Probably a month I guess

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  • Kayleigh2005
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    Xper 5 Age: 21 , mho 39%
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    About a hours notice see if he’s cheating!

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  • LonelyEryn
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    A few months at least

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  • Cripplingkingship
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    a couple of week in advanced.

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  • JimmyBgoode12
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    2 months ahead

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  • oppai1
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    Maybe a few months.

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  • supercutebutt
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    Do what's in your heart.

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  • BlawnDeee
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    I have never done an LDR honestly

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  • MsTaniaUncensored
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    How does one plan an LDR?

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  • chrissykerdock
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    depends how often you meet

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  • meepmeeperton
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    I would plan a few months in advance.

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  • b_lova
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    Depends on how far away they are.

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  • SeriouslyNotSerious
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    As soon as possible.

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  • Nikki1989
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    I wouldn't plan anything at all.

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    • razaul1318
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      1 mo

      Right Information

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  • Emmabrow
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    2 mo

    Every 2 months if possible

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  • slimyWitch
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    2 mo

    As soon as possible

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  • HelpfulGirlll
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    Xper 4 Age: 32
    11 mo

    3 days at most, to keep novelty

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  • LiverOfLife
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    1 week maximum

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  • DonaldDarko
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    I plan so far ahead that I'm not in one.

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  • WilliamPamer446
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    That girls brown hand is cute

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  • NicholasRedone
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    Further than the sun

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  • CountryWanderer
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    If it's flights, four-six months, minimum.

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  • vickiezalez
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    At least a year

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  • Sevenpointfive
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    like one step out of the house.

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  • _Senorita_
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    Maybe for six months i guess..

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  • Kayla45
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    Around 4-6 months.

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  • Criddlen94
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    I'm planning a trip in a year.

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