How far should you plan ahead in a new LDR? (Page 8)

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So how far have people planned ahead to visit someone if they are in a long distance relationship? 2 months? 4 months? Longer … thanks

MorningMiranda · Answer

I'd say a lot. It's all about making time for each other. Cause if not it's not gonna happen.

Megcait · Answer

As soon as possible after connecting. Make sure it is what you want but even then it is tough.

joselyn002 · Answer

You can give some months because if you don't plan it well and get to know him or her very well, is matter of wasting time

Idontknow45 · Answer

My sister was in a LDR for about a year before she visited him but after a few years the recently moved it together

AGメtheloneWOLF · Answer

I don't believe in ldr but the longer the ahead visit the bigger the chances of getting relationship more distant

Katherineny · Answer

LDR are seriously difficult. I don't really think you should plan ahead before having at least 2 years of it going well

Anonymous · Answer

I planned like 10 years down the line. I was smitten. down to marriage, kids, house, jobs, everything. its free to dream

Samanthagordon · Answer

I would think it depends on the anticipated duration of separation

Manuelwe · Answer

Do not. As sign it is coming to an end of relationship

Godihateyou · Answer

If you have to pay a toll to see them it's too far. End it.

CubaPirate · Answer

Never had one really they're a recipe for disaster 🤔

IWILLPLEASEYOU · Answer

I have been trying to make it easier but I'm pretty sure 2 weeks

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know, I've never been in LDR, or any other kind of relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know I’m not 12 years old and I don’t get into LDRs

Anonymous · Answer

I have never engaged in a LDR because I am not stupid and I know time is valuable and you shouldn't waste it.

Anonymous · Answer

LDRs don’t usually work out. They are difficult to keep up. Plan nothing or plan for the inevitable break up.

Sophiaishere · Answer

I think it depends how far away and tour schedules but around 2 months

jijihina · Answer

we planned it last year but i think it varies for each person.

Sarah8000 · Answer

I'd say between 1.6 and 3.7 months - definitely no longer than 4.2 months

Shp22 · Answer

Don't have any experience about it. But i think instant plans are best

Desserter4 · Answer

How long is this question gonna remain at the top of the feed? My God

zane7309 · Answer

Depends on how long the relationship is, frequency of meetings etc

leva532 · Answer

I've not anything like that maybe it's great and work for the peoples.

peaceeee · Answer

In a new long-distance relationship it’s best to plan a little ahead but not too far.

NervousIndividual · Answer

I have never been in a long distance relationship and so I don't know what would make sense.

Deserter3 · Answer

Idfk, I just wish to stop seeing this question pop up, it has been months!

cavedweller1973 · Answer

Depends on how strongly you feel about the person

IJeremy · Answer

Depends on how far away and how often you see each other but I'd say monthly as an average

Lachito12 · Answer

I really needed to see the responses here. It’s been eye opening.

MariannaNst · Answer

LDR usually don't workout so people don't really follow up

lizzobeans · Answer

depends on the time you have, focus on other things too i’d say

WishiwazDgrl · Answer

Guess it would depend on how far they lived and both of y'all's schedules

Max521 · Answer

A year, if I understand your question correctly

sodomanie · Answer

depend on the relationship, and both need to do some steps for it. but i can do a lot

CuteMommy · Answer

I have been in LDR before... We used to meet every 6months

TwinkleStars03 · Answer

Monthly probably. Set online dates, video calls, voice calls, etc.

samsniffies · Answer

I wouldn't plan ahead. He/she probably has a significant other they are hiding from you.

Doshgkin · Answer

I don’t do LDRs I’m not 13 years old anymore

Spiceuplife · Answer

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InfiniteExplorer · Answer

It Could Happen in 1 Year America is a Huge Country

Jpie555 · Answer

Not very far… life is way too unpredictable and as it’s said, man plans and god laughs

yes_goddess · Answer

Who knows? That's why airlines charge more for impulsive decisions.

HH1488 · Answer

If you have to pay money to see them, you shouldn't se them.

bertadefor · Answer

Hi I’m 34 years single from Ghana and I’m looking for ldr that will lead to marriage

thiccums33 · Answer

My suggestion would be to immediately plan for a break up

Bubblegum69 · Answer

It’s an ashamed there ain’t a button to dislike these 🤡?

Anonymous · Answer

Just go week by week I think and see how it goes.

Anonymous · Answer

I keep this question all week... go away from me this thread... so I paste this as to go... don't know about question... sorry

jennyPuss · Answer

all the way to the end

Anonymous · Answer

LDR do not work. If you think you can stop sun from setting, please go ahead and try.

Anonymous · Answer

Things change so much, it's nice to have a goal for 5 years down the line but planning can be a month to month thing.

PinkSchmetterling · Answer

Let me know when you figure it out lol

Taylor_C · Answer

Don't plan. Just keep an open mind.

RachyRach · Answer

Never once thought about a LDR

FindingCommonSense · Answer

None. They don't work

Anonymous · Answer

Obama's mother planed ahead to fuck some indonrsian and nigerian

Paige90 · Answer

Probably a month I guess

Kayleigh2005 · Answer

About a hours notice see if he’s cheating!

LonelyEryn · Answer

A few months at least

Cripplingkingship · Answer

a couple of week in advanced.

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