How far should you plan ahead in a new LDR? (Page 8)

[voreguy1]

Personally if we had been talking for a while and I really loved the person I wouldn’t prepare much I would just let it be naturally.

[Jason4040]

I don't believe most work out but since you didn't ask that I'll answer your question. If it was me, I'd probably plan about 1 month out

[Seveceksin]

LDR are hard and usually don’t work out unless you are both on the same exact page with things , but sadly it’s a slim chance.

[Summer-nights]

I used to be in a relationship with a guy from the Netherlands (I'm from the UK). We would plan to see eachother every 4 months.

[4ngriffKitty36]

It depends on ur conditions and opportunities that you and ur partner have but it's extremely difficult to sustain it.

[Despina6]

Depending on how far you found out. Even if you know their possibly you could be heading out.

[Femmefatale98]

I personally think if you are a woman he should be doing all the planning and officially be the one to tell you he needs to see you.

[Rena90]

Depending on how long you know about if you're giving a year that good to 3 months. I mean able to communicate Through Skype.

[katsiaryna_994]

It will not work like he will be another country and you too. You guys will not even to make out and no fun.

[Twendie]

I don’t know, I was never over the age of a teenager when I was in them, so I had no real way of orcastrating a meeting

[DarcyDarcyDarcy]

I wouldn't want to be in a LDR. It would be annoying going backwards forwards. Would rather date someone in my state

[MorningMiranda]

I'd say a lot. It's all about making time for each other. Cause if not it's not gonna happen.

[Megcait]

As soon as possible after connecting. Make sure it is what you want but even then it is tough.

[joselyn002]

You can give some months because if you don't plan it well and get to know him or her very well, is matter of wasting time

[Idontknow45]

My sister was in a LDR for about a year before she visited him but after a few years the recently moved it together

[AGメtheloneWOLF]

I don't believe in ldr but the longer the ahead visit the bigger the chances of getting relationship more distant

[Katherineny]

LDR are seriously difficult. I don't really think you should plan ahead before having at least 2 years of it going well

[Anonymous]

I planned like 10 years down the line. I was smitten. down to marriage, kids, house, jobs, everything. its free to dream

[Smegskull]

I have no opinion to share. I just want to remove this ancient question from my feed.

[Samanthagordon]

I would think it depends on the anticipated duration of separation

[Manuelwe]

Do not.
As sign it is coming to an end of relationship

[Godihateyou]

If you have to pay a toll to see them it's too far. End it.

[CubaPirate]

Never had one really they're a recipe for disaster 🤔

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

I have been trying to make it easier but I'm pretty sure 2 weeks

[Anonymous]

I don't know, I've never been in LDR, or any other kind of relationship.

[Anonymous]

I don't know I’m not 12 years old and I don’t get into LDRs

[Anonymous]

I have never engaged in a LDR because I am not stupid and I know time is valuable and you shouldn't waste it.

[Anonymous]

LDRs don’t usually work out. They are difficult to keep up. Plan nothing or plan for the inevitable break up.

[doren680]

I don't think planning should happen as far as a month but a few days is ok

[Sophiaishere]

I think it depends how far away and tour schedules but around 2 months

[jijihina]

we planned it last year but i think it varies for each person.

[Sarah8000]

I'd say between 1.6 and 3.7 months - definitely no longer than 4.2 months

[Shp22]

Don't have any experience about it. But i think instant plans are best

[Desserter4]

How long is this question gonna remain at the top of the feed? My God

[zane7309]

Depends on how long the relationship is, frequency of meetings etc

[leva532]

I've not anything like that maybe it's great and work for the peoples.

[peaceeee]

In a new long-distance relationship it’s best to plan a little ahead but not too far.

[NervousIndividual]

I have never been in a long distance relationship and so I don't know what would make sense.

[Deserter3]

Idfk, I just wish to stop seeing this question pop up, it has been months!

[cavedweller1973]

Depends on how strongly you feel about the person

[IJeremy]

Depends on how far away and how often you see each other but I'd say monthly as an average

[Lachito12]

I really needed to see the responses here. It’s been eye opening.

[MariannaNst]

LDR usually don't workout so people don't really follow up

[lizzobeans]

depends on the time you have, focus on other things too i’d say

[WishiwazDgrl]

Guess it would depend on how far they lived and both of y'all's schedules

[Max521]

A year, if I understand your question correctly

[sodomanie]

depend on the relationship, and both need to do some steps for it. but i can do a lot

[CuteMommy]

I have been in LDR before... We used to meet every 6months

[TwinkleStars03]

Monthly probably. Set online dates, video calls, voice calls, etc.

[samsniffies]

I wouldn't plan ahead. He/she probably has a significant other they are hiding from you.

[Doshgkin]

I don’t do LDRs I’m not 13 years old anymore

[Spiceuplife]

Why so longre-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[InfiniteExplorer]

It Could Happen in 1 Year America is a Huge Country

[Jpie555]

Not very far… life is way too unpredictable and as it’s said, man plans and god laughs

[yes_goddess]

Who knows? That's why airlines charge more for impulsive decisions.

[HH1488]

If you have to pay money to see them, you shouldn't se them.

[bertadefor]

Hi I’m 34 years single from Ghana and I’m looking for ldr that will lead to marriage

[thiccums33]

My suggestion would be to immediately plan for a break up

[Bubblegum69]

It’s an ashamed there ain’t a button to dislike these 🤡?

[Anonymous]

Just go week by week I think and see how it goes.