So how far have people planned ahead to visit someone if they are in a long distance relationship? 2 months? 4 months? Longer … thanks

I don't know. I've never been in one.

I guess it depends on the miles.

I think its different for everyone

It depends on the place and the person

I hate ldr so it wouldn’t work out for me

Don't do LDR's they fail from experience

I’ve seen people planning 2-3 months in advance.

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Lyndseylou38 Follow
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I wouldn't put a limit on it.

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HisBro Follow
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I don't know. I've never been in one.

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I guess it depends on the miles.

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January_Sixth Follow
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About 50 centimeters south.

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lucass120 Follow
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I think its different for everyone

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It depends on the place and the person

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I hate ldr so it wouldn’t work out for me

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I think a month is enough.

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Don't do LDR's they fail from experience

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I’ve seen people planning 2-3 months in advance.

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I seen this for a long time

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I had done mine every 4 months

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Maybe not too far tbh

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BadGirlRebellious Follow
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About 14-6 days

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- Up to four months.
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My whole life.

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Not far at all.

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NightRaven7 Follow
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4 months is fair to me.

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I seen this question for over week

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Evamee Follow
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Maybe like month or so

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Too far to go through it all.

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6 months tops. LDR rarely work out.

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I don’t think thats a wise decision

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Like a month probably

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No need to plan is best.

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Just answering so it stops coming on my feed

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Plan for that impending break up.

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LC75LC71 Follow
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Really far! Get it?

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Lucianmagnus Follow
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tbh like 30 days or so or maybe 45

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I wouldn't. LDRs are a recipe for indefinitely.

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At least a year

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Never been in one so i dont know

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TracyWants Follow
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A few months at least

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I've never had a LDR work out

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Six months to a year

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I don't know what LDR is

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None. Shouldn't be in an ldr to begin with.

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Why are you going to him?

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Just go with the flow

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As far as you need to and want to.

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I would not get into a LDR.

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I don't plan in ldr because it's uncertain

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Like I don't know a few months to be safe

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Couple months is ok

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I don’t get how they workout tbh

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It depends how long you've been in the LDR.

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Maybe a month! LDR is not a guarantee

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I don't do ldr

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dougeats Follow
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dont they never work

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Arcadian222 Follow
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Not too far. Give it time

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Not yet my pet 😕 so
Some day Maybe

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6 months for me

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Ldr makes no sense

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Couple months maybe

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I month ahead is more than enough.

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Maybe like 2 months

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LDR isn't a real relationship

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Just take things as they come

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It's fucks so no need to do that

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At least a month to 6 months.

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