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How far should you plan ahead in a new LDR? (Page 9)

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  • Anonymous
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    I keep this question all week... go away from me this thread... so I paste this as to go... don't know about question... sorry

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  • jennyPuss
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    all the way to the end

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  • Anonymous
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    LDR do not work. If you think you can stop sun from setting, please go ahead and try.

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  • Anonymous
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    Things change so much, it's nice to have a goal for 5 years down the line but planning can be a month to month thing.

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  • PinkSchmetterling
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    Let me know when you figure it out lol

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  • Taylor_C
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    410 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    Don't plan. Just keep an open mind.

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  • Annie12509
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    Not sure maybe a month or two

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  • RachyRach
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    Never once thought about a LDR

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  • FindingCommonSense
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    None. They don't work

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  • Anonymous
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    Obama's mother planed ahead to fuck some indonrsian and nigerian

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  • Paige90
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    Probably a month I guess

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  • Kayleigh2005
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    About a hours notice see if he’s cheating!

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  • LonelyEryn
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    A few months at least

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  • Cripplingkingship
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    a couple of week in advanced.

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  • JimmyBgoode12
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    2 months ahead

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  • oppai1
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    Maybe a few months.

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  • supercutebutt
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    Do what's in your heart.

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  • BlawnDeee
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    I have never done an LDR honestly

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  • MsTaniaUncensored
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    How does one plan an LDR?

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  • chrissykerdock
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    depends how often you meet

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  • meepmeeperton
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    I would plan a few months in advance.

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  • b_lova
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    Depends on how far away they are.

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  • SeriouslyNotSerious
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    As soon as possible.

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  • Nikki1989 m
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    I wouldn't plan anything at all.

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    • razaul1318
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      Right Information

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  • HelpfulGirlll
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    3 days at most, to keep novelty

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  • LiverOfLife
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    1 week maximum

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  • DonaldDarko
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    I plan so far ahead that I'm not in one.

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  • WilliamPamer446
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    That girls brown hand is cute

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  • NicholasRedone
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    Further than the sun

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  • CountryWanderer
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    If it's flights, four-six months, minimum.

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  • vickiezalez
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    At least a year

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  • Sevenpointfive
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    like one step out of the house.

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  • _Senorita_
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    Maybe for six months i guess..

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  • Kayla45
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    Around 4-6 months.

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  • Criddlen94
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    I'm planning a trip in a year.

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  • andreamelissa
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    Yes exactly 2 months 3 months

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  • HellOnHeels0
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    When you find out so you could prepare.

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  • Emmabrow
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    Every 2 months if possible

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  • slimyWitch
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    As soon as possible

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  • Lyndseylou38
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    I wouldn't put a limit on it.

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  • HisBro
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    I don't know. I've never been in one.

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  • KennethNoisewater
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    I guess it depends on the miles.

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  • January_Sixth
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    About 50 centimeters south.

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  • lucass120
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    I think its different for everyone

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  • harris2107
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    It depends on the place and the person

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  • LaurenM1997
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    I hate ldr so it wouldn’t work out for me

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  • TheLovelyWoman
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    I think a month is enough.

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  • FlamingLass
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    Don't do LDR's they fail from experience

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  • Unap0logetic_
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    I’ve seen people planning 2-3 months in advance.

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  • Laurenvol
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    I seen this for a long time

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  • Countrygirl777
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    I had done mine every 4 months

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  • elizamichale1
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    Maybe not too far tbh

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  • MelaKnee
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    No idea. A month if I had to say.

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  • BadGirlRebellious
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    About 14-6 days

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  • soe11
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    • Up to four months.
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  • RingOfFire
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    My whole life.

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  • Desconhecida
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    Not far at all.

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  • NightRaven7
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    4 months is fair to me.

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  • ImAlondra
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    I seen this question for over week

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  • Evamee
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    Maybe like month or so

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