So how far have people planned ahead to visit someone if they are in a long distance relationship? 2 months? 4 months? Longer … thanks

I have never done an LDR honestly

I would plan a few months in advance.

Depends on how far away they are.

I wouldn't plan anything at all.

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2 months ahead

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Maybe a few months.

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Do what's in your heart.

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I have never done an LDR honestly

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How does one plan an LDR?

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depends how often you meet

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I would plan a few months in advance.

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Depends on how far away they are.

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As soon as possible.

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I wouldn't plan anything at all.

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3 days at most, to keep novelty

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1 week maximum

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I plan so far ahead that I'm not in one.

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That girls brown hand is cute

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Further than the sun

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If it's flights, four-six months, minimum.

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At least a year

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like one step out of the house.

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Maybe for six months i guess..

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Around 4-6 months.

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I'm planning a trip in a year.

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Yes exactly 2 months 3 months

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When you find out so you could prepare.

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Every 2 months if possible

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As soon as possible

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I wouldn't put a limit on it.

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I don't know. I've never been in one.

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I guess it depends on the miles.

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About 50 centimeters south.

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lucass120 Follow
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I think its different for everyone

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It depends on the place and the person

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I hate ldr so it wouldn’t work out for me

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I think a month is enough.

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Don't do LDR's they fail from experience

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I’ve seen people planning 2-3 months in advance.

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I had done mine every 4 months

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Maybe not too far tbh

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No idea. A month if I had to say.

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About 14-6 days

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- Up to four months.
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My whole life.

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Not far at all.

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4 months is fair to me.

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I seen this for a long time

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I seen this question for over week

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Evamee Follow
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Maybe like month or so

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Too far to go through it all.

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6 months tops. LDR rarely work out.

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I don’t think thats a wise decision

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Like a month probably

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Close the distance before even starting it.

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No need to plan is best.

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Just answering so it stops coming on my feed

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Plan for that impending break up.

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413kim Follow
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only a few weeks

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Really far! Get it?

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Lucianmagnus Follow
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tbh like 30 days or so or maybe 45

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I wouldn't. LDRs are a recipe for indefinitely.

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At least a year

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Never been in one so i dont know

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