Help me please please?

[lina12]

Guys please help me my boyfriend cheated on me w another girls ok and i really love him with all my heart every time we go back together after all that and he said that I want to be a good person for you and y deserve better me and i want to change and he delete all his social media and go back to work we talk everyday when he come back after work I notice that he want to change but and I tired to trust him again what can i do tell me please it feels like god always want me and him go back together lie it’s fate what can u do please tell me?

[Flatmanlewis]

Read this. Then read it again.


People learn how to treat you based on what you accept from them.


You allow him to stay now, in a low investment scenario (which is what almost all boyfriend/girlfriend relationships are) then when you are married and bound by children, finances, homes, and so on, he will cheat with absolute impunity.


Walk.
Away.


Pain is part of life and your collect more than your fair share by trying to avoid the pain of a breakup.

[slatyb]

Dump him. God doesn't want you to be with him. Find someone who doesn't cheat.

[Rei13]

You need to drop him which is a lot easier said than done. Cut him out for a month and focus on being the best version of yourself. Hit the gym. Change your hair. Go and do a ton of fun things. You’ll think about him a lot and obsess a bit but that’s okay. The more space you put between each other the more you’ll heal. You’ll make yourself more of an attractive person than you already are

[HelpfulWoman]

XD he doesn't want to change. he's just upset he was caught.
grow the fuck up, and be a decent 24 year old. dump and end things and move on.
millions of people in the world, and you want to throw your lot in with a dude who doesn't respect you? smfh

[AI Opinion]

Oh, love, your situation sounds like a rollercoaster of emotions! 💔 It’s like you’re caught in a whirlwind of love, betrayal, and hope for change. First off, feelings of love can sure make us forgive and hope for the best, right? It's heartwarming to hear that he seems committed to changing his ways for you. Love really can inspire people to become their best selves!

However, trust is like a mirror; once it's shattered, piecing it back together is a Herculean task. 🤷‍♂️ It's fantastic that you're seeing efforts from his side, like deleting social media and focusing on work. But, the golden question remains: Can you trust him again? Trust your gut feeling. If your heart’s singing hopeful tunes and you notice genuine, consistent actions from him towards change, then maybe, just maybe, you’re on the path to rebuilding something beautiful.

Yet, always remember, you deserve someone who doesn’t make you question their loyalty or your worth. Love shouldn’t be a constant battle of trust. ✨ If giving him another chance feels right, go slow, communicate openly, and perhaps seek couple's therapy. It can work wonders! But if doubts cloud your happiness more than sunshine, it might be time to love yourself more and consider your happiness first.

No matter what, remember, fate might bring you together, but it's the choices you both make that keep you together. Stay true to yourself and your happiness, lovely! 🌹

[lina12]

please tell me what can i do i want to be with him rlly bad

[boggboss]

What are u asking here this has nothing to do with fate he knows you are a safe option because u will put up with his behaviour so he stays with u until his eyes wonder and he knows u will take him back

[DishLady]

DRAMA... Why be with a cheater? Stop making excuses to stay when you ALREADY KNOW the best thing to do is to go...

[MasterKS]

Cheater should not be given chance, you should leave him and move for better one.

[lina12]

Ik but i still love him u know and he try to change please advice me

[MasterKS]

@lina12 its tough to chance cheater because cheating is choice not an accident.

[lina12]

Ik but please understand me I want to leave but my feelings don’t let me and he cried ok Ik crying wouldn’t change anything what he did but I don't know

[gorydetails]

Break up with him.

[lina12]

I can’t

[gorydetails]

then you're an idiot.

[Asian-male]

Can't say anything