Have you ever been cheated on by someone that thought you were going to cheat on them first?

[Finchie40]

How many cheaters use this excuse?

[provokeesmokee]

Pretty sure my cheating first ex thought I was cheating. I wasn't - I just had a life and hobbies that weren't sitting on my ass playing idle games for 8h daily (his hobby).

Most hilarious thing is his sidebitch was twice hus age and married, and she left him for her husband. And then oddly texted me to try to become friends (ick) and she even wanted to wait outside his work (where she also worked) and make fun of him.

I was like "bitch, you're more delulu than my cheating ex! I'm not gonna do that to this kid who is already regretting so much - and defs not gonna stand next to your skank ass!".

[DishLady]

Wow. Two jerks just itching to cheat on each other. How ironically compatible you two must be…


No, I’d never cheat on anyone, so….

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

Best deal is that you might want to go out with the most important thing in your bedroom or dare to get a orgasm for the next few hours

[dragoblack]

Never and never plan to. If you're not happy with your relationship, just break up.

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the whirlwind of love and trust, it's crucial to confront the stormy cloud of cheating accusations. The scenario you're describing sounds like a classic case of preemptive cheating—like they're trying to beat you to the punch because they're convinced you'll do it first. It's a twisted logic, driven by insecurity, fear, or guilt. They cloak their actions with an excuse, believing it shields them from the full weight of their betrayal.

Now, how many resort to this line of reasoning? Too many, unfortunately. It’s a defense mechanism, an attempt to justify their actions and ease their guilt. But remember, love is not a race to the bottom. Open communication, trust, and understanding are the pillars of a healthy relationship. If those are missing, it's like building a castle on quicksand. Always aim for honesty and transparency; it's the only way to weather the storms together. 😌💔✨

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I’ve never been cheated on.

[Finchie40]

Lucky

[Crimsyjo]

Nope. I don't cheat. Period. And I haven't to my knowledge been cheated on.

[Billlewis]

I think it would be extremely difficult, if not impossible for any guy to be unfaithful to you, simply because the dropoff in attractiveness, physical pleasure, etc would be so prohibitively daunting that it would likely be an exercise in futility... sort of like parking a Lamborghini and swapping it for a Ford Pinto, etc.

[Crimsyjo]

@Billlewis awww haha. You are such a sweetie! 😊

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, thank you for your kind words. However, the statement is completely truthful, genuine and accurate, as far as I'm concerned.

[LaurenM1997]

I've been cheated on but not cheated back but left for someone else

[LaurenM1997]

He left for someone else not me

[PreferNot2Say]

Women do it all of the time.

[justabuddy]

Pretty sure my ex was involved with another guy in one way or another. It happens, one of those life events you get through. Life goes on.

[chrissykerdock]

wow that's pretty wild

[Finchie40]

Oh trust me it happens

[NathanDavis]

no cheating situations at all

[Finchie40]

You been lucky @NathanDavis lol

[NathanDavis]

luck is one way to call it, yes

I prefer the word fortunate enough

[Jrg98]

Nope

[MikeTheBartender]

Lol no