You ever been cheated on by someone that said they had to cheat on you?

[Finchie40]

When a cheater is caught red handed they always have an excuse for their actions , and it’s usually your fault as to why they cheated , and sometimes I can agree with the cheater as to why they did it but when a cheater says I had to cheat on you , How would you respond to that? Cuz you didn’t have to do anything , you could of just ended the relationship but instead they say I had to do it? Explain

[richardcory]

The only excuse I can see for cheating is a situation where someone is unable to leave a relationship (eg raising children) but who's partner doesn't want sex. A marriage should not be a vow of celibacy.

[Finchie40]

Yea most cheating occurs because of lack of intimacy and affection in a relationship , that’s really
The only time I will even consider cheating on a girl , is if I am constantly being denied intimacy and affection from her and she makes me feel like I have to earn it from her , cuz to me she is already cheating on the relationship by denying me intimacy and affection constantly. So to me she my as well already be cheating on me whether she is or not , it doesn’t matter is how I look at it , so I become more open to accepting another girl that wants to fulfill me , but my thing is if I do end up cheating , I will end my relationship with my partner right then and there , I don’t go back to her like everything is ok. , the people that cheat that have a satisfying sex life with their partners already are pieces of shit to me , I feel that is so wrong to do to someone like oh my cock isn’t good enough for you or her vagina isn’t good enough for him , To me that is so wrong to do. All in all I feel cheating is wrong period but sadly so many people do it

[AMS700CX4u2]

Our Creator told us not to take vows and oaths and on that premise ministers tell prospectice couples that God does not want you to get married.. No man or woman has total control over his or his or her lives. Sex is not something to mock. and temp. If situations are right you will fall.
In 50 years I have had a significant number who were interested in a cheating situation. I never went anywhere without my wife.

[AMS700CX4u2]

Some people have strong revenge motivations. They feel that they have to get even. If I have missread the question then I have no answer.

[DizzyDesii]

The closest thing to that was “I had to go get head from elsewhere, you dont believe in sucking dick”. I surely did not in high school

[Anonymous]

I have been cheated on by two women. Neither tried to make any excuses. They both seemed ashamed, as they should have been.

I do notice that a lot of women try to justify it and blame the guy when women cheat.

[NathanDavis]

never, neither... fortunately