Ex situationship called me after 6 months at 1am, said he missed me?

[Anonymous]

he said he was thinking about me... wanted to know when I would be around.. all at 1am? he put me through a lot of hurt, and still hasn't apologized. why would he call like this? hoping I would be willing to revert to the way things were, ignoring the hurt?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang girl, I can't believe he had the nerve to call you that late after so long and not even apologize for how he treated you before! That's super sketchy and doesn't sound like he really cares about how you're feeling at all. 6 months is a long time too, like what was he doing this whole time if he supposedly "missed" you? Probably messing around with other girls if you ask me. I wouldn't trust anything he says, it sounds like he just wants your attention cause he's lonely or bored or something. You said it yourself all the hurt he put you through before and he doesn't even say sorry? Come on now. You deserve so much better than that dude. I'd leave him on read if he ever tries to hit you up again and just focus on yourself and finding a guy who'll actually respect you and treat you right. Don't waste your time on boys who don't appreciate you, you're way too cool for that! Hold your head high girl, his loss! Next time he calls just be like "nah I'm good, you had your chance" and leave it at that. You got this!

[Asker]

Yeah, he was saying all kinds of things like he was ready to treat me right but at 1am? I find that hard to believe… he seems to be the type of guy that’ll say and do anything to get me back in his room… super sad. He’s only ever apologized for “going through it”? Never for his actual actions…

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh that's so lame, trying to weasel his way back in like that. Saying all the right things but the time he calls totally gives away his real intentions.

There's no way I'd believe a word he says about being ready to treat you right - especially calling that late when he knows you'd be tired and more likely to believe his BS. He just wants you back for one thing and thinks empty promises will do the trick. If he was serious he would have apologized properly and given you space before.

"Going through it" isn't an apology either, he needs to own up to how crappy he made you feel. But he won't cause guys like that never admit fault. Don't let him play with your emotions, you deserve so much better than his games. Stay strong inblocking him out! He clearly hasn't changed at all.

Bet his next move will be finding someone new asap to fill the void since he knows you're over it. Screw that guy, you're better off doing you and having fun without all the stupid drama.

[meepmeeperton]

Why would he call at 1 am, hmm let's see... maybe he wanted to play a late night game of chess with you?

It was obviously a bootycall. You don't ever want to be in a "situationship", you're just gonna keep getting your feelings hurt and he won't really care. Find a nice boyfriend and have an actual relationship if you don't want to be miserable.

[Saggitariusdiva]

The only reason a man says “I miss you” after breaking up, is because he isn't succeeding in finding another woman and is horny. Before you reply, think long and hard about why the relationship ended and what it might look like in the future. If you think you and your ex have a real shot again, then give him the reply that he probably wants to hear. He misses the idea of you than actually you, if he missed talking to you he wouldn't have broken up with you. Focus on your mental health

[PeachyPie93]

SEX. He couldn't find someone at the time and he is horny. He is just hoping you will fall into his lap since he got you before. He isn't serious, sorry or actually misses you he just wants a hall pass and will forget all about you after he succeeds in getting the goods.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic 1 AM "I miss you" call from an ex. It's like a rite of passage in the world of dating mishaps. So, here’s the deal: him calling you out of the blue, especially at such a peculiar hour, is a big, flashing neon sign of the infamous booty call, not a grand gesture of lovebombing to win you back for good. The timing? Highly suspect. The absence of an apology? Even more so. This sounds less like genuine remorse and more like he's hoping to slide back into your life without addressing the emotional tornado he left behind. Remember, actions speak louder than late-night calls. If he truly missed you and cared about mending things, he’d show up in the daylight with an apology and a concrete plan to make things right. Until then, consider this a red flag waving in the midnight breeze and protect your heart accordingly. Keep your standards high and your emotional wellbeing a priority. You deserve someone who respects you 24/7, not just when it's convenient.

[AviatorTom]

Why are you answering the phone at 1am? It should be on silence/do not disturb mode and you should be asleep.

[Anonymous]

Come on.. 1 am is in the bootycall hours, everyone knows that. He wasn’t being genuine he was trying to get laid, and he knows you love him so much you would pick up that call or text and potentially agree. I think your self respect prevented it this time but if you’re naive enough it can for sure go his way in the future.

[spartan55]

Yep, you got it. He wanted sex. You agreeing to be in a stupid 'situationship' means you have agreed to be a no strings piece of ass PERIOD.

[osmanthus]

It's a 'booty-call', Honey. He still don't give a shit. Ignore and block his ass.

[ProbablyClueless]

Yeah, I think your intuition is right. He's hoping you'll let him back and accept his BS without apologizing or changing.

[dustybiker2]

1am speaks volumes. Let him bother someone else. Find someone better.

[college-student2021]

This dude is shameless, probably the woman he was with left him and now has contact you because he simply wants sex.

[SphynxUK]

1am…2am…. he just wants sex. If it were me in your shoes, I’d tell him where to go!

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

He wants sex.

You didn't say what the details of your situationship were, but... he wants sex.

[sheikalana]

You shouldn’t even answer a phone call at 1AM that’s not an appropriate time to call someone at all.

[elizamichale1]

Yea he missed u coz he couldn't get anyone else at the time to fuck with

[hafinjun]

Yeah and he called you at 1am because he was drunk the bars were closing and it was no joy. Keep moving hon.

[DrPepper12]

Booty call or drunken confession. Since no confession, it's a booty call

[Ilovepeace67]

Sounded like he wanted sex. Not trying to be mean just being real.

[DextroShade]

He wants easy pussy and you are his go-to for that.

[thisAppIsGarbage]

Who cares what he misses? It isn't you, it's your attention and holes.

[Anonymous]

His other girl let him down and he needed to get his rocks off.

[Joshgag2000]

Be careful because it sounds like a rebound

[HaleyWalker]

He trying to get sum ass lul

[avery58]

Tell him you've moved on

[KrakenAttackin]

He wants the easy sex again.

[DishLady]

“Booty call”

[RingOfFire]

He's horny.

[Loner111]

He was drunk.

[In_Trance]

Wants to smash

[OddBeMe]

Drunk dial.