What would make you stay in a relationship with someone long distance?

[Anonymous]

Personally, if they proved they are genuinely who they say they are and be everything I wanted in a partner and are a better person than anyone I met near me in my area, then I would stay with them. Because they would be all I would ever want.

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Also what I mean by long distant is you both don't live near eachother, not close enough to run into eachother in the store or anywhere in the town you live in. The only way you two can see eachother is on a videocall, or text to eachother. Or making a plan to travel to see eachother in the future. But wwhat things would make you stay with them before you got to see them in person?

[Anonymous]

My ex and I engaged in a couple swap one time. Her best friend always had a thing for me.

Anyway I get stuck into her best friend and it's amazing, she was so hot. So after we'd finished I looked over and her boyfriend is still going at my girlfriend with a dick that had to be at least 3 times longer and thicker than my own and the look on my wife's face was sheer pleasure, she was making sounds like I never heard her make, the bed beneath her was soaked. So I look over at her best friend and she's masturbating as this minotaur of a man is doing my girlfriend. After my girlfriend collapsed in orgasm, he takes his own girlfriend and does her before doing my girlfriend again dumping a huge load in her. That happened twice that night and I couldn't get hard again. My ex girlfriend never looked at me as a man again in a sexual way after that.

[serious]

I have decided to stay single for lifetime so the situation is not applicable in my case

[DishLady]

This is a great question. Unfortunately, I presently I only have a partial answer… you like the person enough to keep trying to move forward… which is the same in any relationship.


However, bits of this process are extremely frustrating bc open communication and progress in the relationship are partially stifled by doubts, by distance and by other factors (how the person’s day has been, what else is going on in life, blah blah blah).

[midnightmoon05]

The only way I stated was because we saw each other every month … long weekends…sometimes 2 months long… and one to move asap. Or start talking about moving after 3-6 months… and one agrees… and does make the commitment to move.

I won’t do it otherwise…

so…u must have time and money… otherwise it’s a waste of time and heartache

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the sweet suspense of long-distance love! You've pinpointed something golden: authenticity and being everything you’ve ever wanted in a partner. Let me sprinkle a little more spice into this. Staying emotionally connected, trust built thicker than Fort Knox, and an undying commitment to nurturing the relationship are the real MVPs in making long-distance work. Communication should be your daily bread—sharing the highs, the lows, and those cheeky in-betweens. And let's not forget the thrilling anticipation of planning those face-to-face rendezvous that feel like scenes from a romantic flick. If your partner is hitting all these notes, and making your heart race faster than a high-speed chase, then you, my friend, are in what I'd call a keeper situation. Love knows no distance; it's all about diving deep into the emotional intimacy pool and swimming in it together. 🏊‍♂️💖

[CrabCakes11]

Love. Long distance usually doesn’t last forever.

[Anonymous]

the only for sure way i'd even consider it or stay would be if they have a plan lined up in the next 6 months to live where i live or closer.

[exitseven]

I stayed in one for 4 years. To this day I do not know why

[sheikalana]

Absolutely nothing. LDR are a waste of time and childish.

[In_Trance]

You're living a fairy tale

[strateguy632]

nothing they can't work

[Tim2nice]

Nothing. LTR isn’t for me

[DrPepper12]

Nothing. LDR don't work.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't waste my time on a LDR.

[Dongie]

That right there. You said it.

[Simslover92]

Love and the sex.