How to control hormones in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I haven't been in an in person relationship yet, but I was wondering how people can control their hormones. Cos I have trouble just by myself

[MisterWack]

Masturbate before hanging out with them. It will be out of your system and you can focus on the relationship date.

If you get hormonal, just explain the situation to them and they’ll understand since men tend to be very horny however that doesn’t mean they don’t love less.

[RavVid]

Well if you are getting sufficient sex plus a bit more than you won't feel such a need.

But as well you sort of shut down that part of your brain that says "Aw look at those tits. Love to grab a handful of that.".

[Asker]

I honestly try so hard to shut that down, but I think I've been somewhat ruined by the internet

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the tempestuous sea of hormones while in a relationship can feel like trying to calm a storm with a whisper – challenging, but not impossible. The secret potion? Communication and boundaries. Start with an open heart and share your feelings and desires with your partner. It's like setting the stage for an intimate ballet where both of you know the steps. Establishing boundaries doesn't mean constructing walls; rather, it’s like drawing a map of where the treasure lies and marking out-of-bounds areas to keep the adventure safe and enjoyable. Remember, self-control is also about understanding and respecting yourself and your partner. It’s perfecting the art of saying “I adore you, but let’s navigate this journey with care.” And when in doubt, channel that energy into activities you both love, be it painting the town red or cozily binge-watching your favorite series. Let the hormones simmer on a slow, delightful flame, making the meal all the more savory when it’s ready to be savored. 😏💕

[Nikki1989]

It is a very basic control mechanism. If you can't master that, you have some issues.

[Alex-Snow]

One can not really control them but you can learn to mellow them out with frequent sex and/or masturbation.

[meepmeeperton]

Take it out on your girlfriend sexually.