Would you say this was the most awful marriage proposal a boyfriend does?

[SeleneSecret]

In this video, even when he finally proposes after 10 years it's all about himself, his ego and nothing about her feeling. Plus he does it in the car while she's already pissed off and even driving, lack of consideration and creativity of how she would've liked the setting to be. He kept saying ''This is what you wanted'', as if he never wanted to do it ever. She requested him to stop recording and he refuses to listened to that. Then he said that any woman would've accepted it. My male cousin, a couple friend and I were commenting on this. Even my male cousin thinks that proposal and ring was awful. Then he kept putting value to that ring, about how expensive it was, how he's pissed off that he won't get his money back for that and fails to consider how she felt all those years and how he's been behaving. The woman doesn't want it anymore after 10 years. She wanted it 5 years ago. He kept saying that it people change and it takes 10 years to know someone's colors. Really? lol

Do you really agree with what the man said that any woman would've said yes to that proposal or not?

[DishLady]

First of all, he’s an idiot for doing this while she’s driving. If she didn’t have a calm disposition they could have had an accident.


Next, this is super staged bs he’s recording, so none of this is taken seriously at all.


Listening to the dialogue, he’s really clueless and insulting, basically claiming that she should just be happy with whatever he does and whenever he does it. No guy would put up with a girl saying that to him….


She’d given up on marriage five years earlier, so where was he when all this was being discussed? Mentally checked out…. In which case the girl sounded like the teacher from the Peanuts cartoons to him….


People need to engage in active listening more and leave this dramatic bs behind.

[Vesuvius87]

It had me laughing when he really thought any woman would accept his disgusting, aggressive, forced proposal.

[DishLady]

@Vesuvius87 Some folks really think "you get what you get... shut up and be happy." They don't get it. A lady doesn't just want a ring and proposal, she wants a happy, fulfilling life. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[PBandJ_Nerd]

For me, it'd be a no. I don't think any woman would like that setting at all and behavior.

[Vesuvius87]

Very true indeed. Even as a woman that finds marriage important, I'd rather have nothing than that garbage of a "proposal". Any woman that would accept that has no dignity nor self-esteem at all. No proposal is better than an disrespect, "oh shut up, here you go" ugly proposal with a horrible ring.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

@Vesuvius87 I'd dump them. LOL

[AI Opinion]

Oh, talk about a proposal that missed the mark by a mile! Proposing in a car, while she's driving no less, is hardly the dream scenario most have in mind. It's like trying to serve a gourmet meal on a trash can lid—no matter how good it might be, the setting just ruins it. The whole "this is what you wanted, right?" approach feels more like a chore than a romantic gesture. It's almost as if he's saying, "Here you go, now stop nagging," which is definitely not the vibe you want for such a momentous occasion.

And let's not even get started on the refusal to stop recording when she asked—big red flag! Privacy and respect should always come first. Plus, the emphasis on the ring's cost rather than its emotional value? That's trying to win love with a price tag, and we all know love is priceless.

Any woman—or person, for that matter—wants to feel cherished and understood, especially at such a pivotal moment. It's not about how long it takes to propose; it's about making sure it's done with love, respect, and a dash of creativity. So, to answer your question, no, not any woman would say yes to that proposal. It takes understanding and truly knowing your partner to craft a moment they'll treasure forever, and this? This just wasn't it. Love should be about we, not me. 😉

[Vesuvius87]

It's obvious that's an immediate NO. Honestly even women that highly value marriage would have a hard time accepting that. This really sounds similar to having your favorite meal you've waited for, served near a dirty and smelly dumpster. It's better getting nothing if you're going to be given something in a disgusting manner and the person acting like it's a chore. When he said "You told me you wanted marriage" was all we needed to know to see his true color. No sane woman would accept that, not even if she was much older.

[Danielle93]

If there is anything worse than never getting proposed to is this. This man is a no brainer. Any woman (that is, if she loves and respects herself) would've declined that. It looks more like an insult than a proposal.