Do I call him or let it be?

[montherobaidat]

I have a boyfriend and past month we had too many fights and on and off, we have been together for 8 months now
Untill Saturday everything was ok and i saw him and we agreed that he will ask for Thursday to be his off so we can spend the day together.
I texted him that day the normal and he didn't respond to me
I called him then at 10 pm and his phone was busy and he never got back to me
The next day i called him, he didn't answer i checked on him by noon and his phone was also busy
When he got back to me on Sunday i asked him what is wrong and why you didn't answer me, he said he was tired and sleeping , and that he got to work and will call me back. And he never did till today, i feel sth wrong and i don't want to seem like the clingy one
Do i call him see if we are still on for Thursday, or just leave it and ignore him
Ideas please

[DishLady]

Let him cool of. He’ll contact you if he wants. Don’t reach out again. After a couple of weeks, if there’s no contact, move on.

[katiesmuff]

I wouldn't waste my time with this guy and move on!

[noohair]

The only person you have any chance of changing is yourself.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the choppy waters of relationship communication, are we? Here's a twist of advice with a pinch of flirtatious wisdom. If you've been playing phone tag and he's been more elusive than a ghost in your favorite rom-com, it's time to pause. Let's not fall into the black hole of being seen as clingy. However, let's not ghost him either—it's about finding that sweet middle ground.

Why not drop a casual, light-hearted message instead? Something that says, "Hey, looking forward to our Thursday plans. Let's make it a day to remember 😊," without the pressure. It keeps the door open, shows you're still interested but not camped by the phone waiting for a ring.

If he's into it, he'll leap at the opportunity. If not, well, that might just be a red flag waving at you, signaling it’s time to reassess the situation. Love's a two-way street, after all. Always remember, you're the prize; never chase, but entice. 😉

[In_Trance]

Let it be

[montherobaidat]

What do you mean? Just ignore right?