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Girls when your man does something you don't accept or is "acting out of line"
what's something you do to get him in check or to make sure he doesn't do it again?
What assertive/aggressive things you do when he deserves a punishment in favor to keep the relationship healthy? Some examples of things he has done: Shout at you, make fun of you in front of your friends, contradict your version of a story you tell to an audience, slap your a$s in public, refuses to give oral when you have done it to him recently, ...
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You are right. The situation too heavy for just solving it by talking. But the situation is neither so tertible that you divorce for it. At least not immediately. So this is the area in which a k1ck to the ba11s could help in my opinion.
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Oh my... I don't like the idea of either the guy or girl getting aggressive. But I will draw a line and offer a logical explanation of why something doesn't sit well with me. Kind of like spritzing a cat with a bit of water to train it to use the litter box. But if what I'm seeing are a bunch of red flags then it's not something that can be resolved with conversation... The things you're listing, for example, are mostly rude and ungentlemanly behaviors that would make me think, "It's time to walk away from this guy."
And perhaps he changes by that...
(No, I don't subscribe to physical violence as any type of solution at all.)
If I walk away, I'm honestly not looking back. People's core values and behaviors don't change, especially at my age, so there's no point in thinking you can really "fix" another person. If it's a small behavioral thing (like eating healthier so we can be together longer), then that's fine, but if he's violent, for example, or verbally abusive, that's not a thing I'm sticking around for.
Okay if 48 is really your age then you can be right. A man who is already 50 won't change not that easy any more. But a 30 yo guy for sure if he loves her.
Honestly, a person's age doesn't matter much. I've seen it at every age.
A man only changes if it's the work of the holy spirit. But the punishment can motivate him to want to change if it's severe enough...
Disciplining a grown adult? Oh wow... I have no maternal instincts and certainly no maternal instincts to discipline a grown person.
Well just call it feminist punishment against a macho man who turned a$shole. Don't see it as a mother - son thing, especially if he is 3 or 7 years older than you...
That is NOT feminism and has nothing to do with feminism, please people educate yourselves before using that term mindlessly, thanks.
Ah so in your opinion a woman must not kick except in case of real danger of live?
I usually just yell at him then eventually get over it lol
And if he does it again? No lesson for him to change?
He usually will then I yell at him again and so on and so on. Maybe one day he won't do it because he'll get sick of me yelling at him 🤣 most things ain't that bad really... But miner things.
Ever tried to see his yelling as an attack against your female dignity and that he needs a painful lesson?
I think I'm the one that does most the yelling lol. I'm not gonna punish him by hurting him, yelling or maybe even the silent treatment will be enough I think lol
What if, during an argument, he roughly grabs your upper arms and looks at you angrily?
I'd still be yelling at him probably. I'm hot headed myself and very stubborn so even if I got thrown around by my hair I'd probably still be yelling while it's happening 🤣
Couldn't you imagine simply raising your knee in that situation?
I don't and won't hurt him physically. And I simply ask the same of him but anything he thinks he can do, I can do too. It's only fair.
Well, but he is already hurting you physically on your arms. Ask him if he would accept a painful punishment for some wrong behaviour against you