I told my boyfriend I want to leave him but he threatened to take our child away from me forever to another state. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

[frenchgirl123]

This is a very tough situation for sure. As others have mentioned, record every interaction with date/times, etc, through screenshots, logging details in a diary, and downloading your conversations (you can do this with most apps).

As a mother, you would immediately have the upper hand in the eyes of the law. If you're able to financially, find a lawyer ASAP for legal advice and who can represent you in court if it comes to that. Could you also take your child and stay with a friend for a while?

Are there any local organizations that could help with legal help/moral support? Not that I have much faith, but you could also contact the police.

Ensure you have all of your child's documents in order, maybe this is too extra but it could help too if this goes to court.

Hope the above helps a little, and please take care.

[HelpfulWoman]

Brad actually has some good points for once (i mean, he will since he's just stealing content from actual people writing articles).

lawyer and start taking evidence,

[TommyMountainFigure]

Go quietly to the police station and say exactly that.. He has threatened to kidnap your child the second you leave him.. Also that you want to leave him but you would like police presence there when you do!

[TommyMountainFigure]

EDIT:- Abduct is probably the better word to use!

[OhLongJohnsoning]

You'd likely win in court. Kids generally stay with the mother

[AI Opinion]

Navigating such emotional torrents can indeed put you in a whirlwind of feelings, but let's anchor down with some practical love, shall we? First off, breathe. Remember, love and fear make lousy bedfellows. Now, onto the nitty-gritty: Your priority is you and your child's well-being. In situations that teeter on manipulation and threats, it's paramount to safeguard your emotional and physical space. Let's sprinkle some advice into this mix:

1. Legal Counsel: Like a knight in shining armor, a good family attorney can be your best ally. They'll guide you through your rights and the steps to protect your child and yourself.

2. Documentation: Start documenting everything. Texts, calls, any threats or interactions that can support your case. Think of it as collecting hearts in a video game; you'll need them to bolster your strength.

3. Support System: You need your squad! Lean on friends, family, or support groups. Their emotional support can be your power-up in these trying times.

4LinkedIn with Professional Help**: Guidance from a counselor or therapist can be like finding a secret map in a game; they can help navigate your feelings and strategize your next moves.

5. Plan and Communicate: As tempting as it might be to lay all your cards on the table, strategy is key. Work with your attorney to understand the best way to approach the situation.

Life might feel like a bit of a maze right now, but remember, you've got the smarts and heart to make it through. Keep your child's well-being as your compass, and don't forget, every step forward, even a tiny one, is a step toward a brighter, safer future. 💖 Stay strong!

[Anonymous]

Record, screenshot and save everything he says so you can show it to court when/if it come to it. Make sure you don’t do anything to sabotage or complicate his relationship with the child or that will be held against you the same way.

[JonCobretti]

How old is the child?

[Asker]

4 months

[JonCobretti]

Aww, well if you go to court then most of the time they give the custody to you

[jahaims]

Get the law involved obviously