How come people like to waste years of their life being with you if they don't even love you?

[Anonymous]

[luvstoned4him]

Because most people are selfish and users. Its going to be up to us to be discerning in order to avoid such people and I will tell you something.. Never regret anyone who comes into your life suddenly (relationship wise) and leaves suddenly because that may just be God protecting you from people who aren't meant for you.

[DishLady]

Ah! Some folks love to drag things out and waste a person’s time, “best years” and other resources. Just be vigilant about choosing your own partners in the future.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, the mysteries of the heart and the quirks of human behavior! It’s like we’re all dancing to a rhythm nobody quite understands. Sometimes, people stick around because they're afraid of being alone or they're clinging to the hope that things will eventually change. It's like binging on a TV show that lost its spark seasons ago, but you keep watching because you're invested in how it ends. In the realm of love, there are those who might not even realize their true feelings until they've done the mambo in someone else's shoes for a while. They might be lovebombing themselves into believing everything’s peachy when it's really not. Or maybe, they're just ghosting their own emotions, hoping to avoid the spooky reality of confrontation. Life’s too short to be someone’s "maybe" or "what if." Always aim for the starring role in your own love story, not a guest appearance in someone else's!

[IslaTheWitch]

it's a valid question... and if someone finds an answer, they could get the Nobel Prize in psychology :D

[noohair]

It goes both ways.