Does an increase in attraction to a woman correspond to an increase in love for her🤔 ?

[TyraMayes]

Yes

No

A total of 53 votes were cast: 18 girls and 35 guys. See detailed results

[DishLady]

No. Guys feel love and attraction separately. A guy can be horny for a woman without loving her. A guy can also feel attraction to a girl's personality without loving her.

[hahahmm]

yes BUT they can also be the same thing. In a deep relationship sex & love are close together. If he isn't into her then they have nothing to do with each other.

[DishLady]

From what I’ve observed it takes a guy a bit longer to sync those things up. “Close together” isn’t precisely the same thing. It’s fine, but a girl has to be realistic to see and understand what her guy is feeling.

[hahahmm]

Well you shouldn't judge it based on sex. Base it on everything else. Of course it takes a lot more to get a guy to really be into you. Same reason guys aren't running to get married.

[hahahmm]

Maybe the flip side of that. If a guy is really into you then he perceives you as more attractive then he otherwise would and also guys express love with sex in a deep relationship. He can express it in many other ways too tho.

But the fact you look good is NOT what makes a guy 'love' you.

[hahahmm]

And why do so many women seem to be unable to grasp that no matter how good you look, it's not looks that keeps a man around? Almost as if women need to believe that they can buy the magic creams/paints, hairstyle and clothes to get everything they want in life. Nahhh. Your ancestors had it all figured out. There's a reason why people use to value character at the same level as looks. Of course it helped that almost all women were fit in the old days so then we could take looks for granted and focus more on character. Now that we're told it's wrong to shame someone for being a lazy fat azzz we have a huge variety of looks.

[Lionman95]

No because attraction and love are two different things especially if the interest stays on a physical level. Attraction just means she catches the eye while love is one of the reason she does so, other reasons could be lust, her clothing style or something she does.

[SugarSugarplum]

Attraction is what happens at first glance, first date. After that, it's about bonding, not attraction.

[Alli112]

I mean I definitely feel like I've heard people give this narrative of "I'm even more attracted to you now that I know you better" etc so yeah, to some degree. You gotta remember that things like personality and mannerisms and values can be attractive too (not just physical appearance) so even if you're not, like, in love completely, that's still an experience that makes sense.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

No.

Just because a guy wants to have sex with a girl doesn't mean he wants to marry her, or even date her.

Sexual attraction can be very unemotional for men. It isn't always, but it can be.

[TonyV]

Not really cause If he's only motivated by her banging hot body and his desire to have sex with her because of her banging hot body that isn't really love, that's just lust.

[paledreams]

Yes, particularly if the woman was wearing an ordinary clothes or work uniform or a particular fashion sense (tartan skirts lover, low cut top lover) etc etc
It'd catch my eyes 👀👀

[paledreams]

♀️ women - if only they knew how male peacocks stand out 🦚

[paledreams]

With features, something that draws attention, 🎭🎨

[HawkPerception]

Physical attraction does not correlate to love at all. It definitely affects the initial attraction, but anything after that, not so much.

[Miristheiss]

Nope.

Lust yes. Love? Not necessarily. She has to be long term material and meet the criteria of someone a guy wants long term.

[RingOfFire]

Attraction and love can be two totally different things, especially for men who are better able to separate their sexual attraction from their emotional feelings than women.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

If you are hoping for a "yes", sadly, it's a "no".

[blueonblack22]

This is something I would expect to hear from a 16 year old not a 24 year old.

[WhitneySnow]

Not necessarily. Attraction and love are two very different things.

[nawtee_me]

Attention doesn’t mean love at all. Attention may have something to do with attraction or infatuation but love is a completely different animal….

[CieloAzul]

I don’t think so. Attraction and love are totally different. They might mix between there are differences.

[GiganticPecans]

It also helps if the guy gets a boner when he’s around her…. That’s a pretty strong signal. He likes her and will do whatever her bidding is if there is a chance that he can mate with her.

[Sasquach]

No they're unrelated otherwise we would all have oedipus complex

[KrakenAttackin]

Women will do anything for a man they find attractive.

[Kaizer000]

Not necessarily. Many guys would be attracted to pornstars. Doesn't mean they love them lol

[MasterKS]

Increase the chance i want to be with her, for sex!

[Anonymous]

Well yes, but it needs to be complex attraction not just physical

[Radiate143]

Not even remotely.

[handsomelad70]

Sometimes yes, sometimes no.

[woahhh152]

Could be lust as well

[foxsquirrell]

It defenitley helps.

[Anonymous]

That's not a simple answer.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Wdym?

[Danny_dan92]

Yes. Obviously