Levels of seduction in Women and Men picture below. This was meant as a joke of course and is not accurate for ALL women and ALL men (common sense), but there must be some truth behind it. I mean, this picture is about seduction, but if you change it up a bit, you get different Levels of Attraction. Attraction is more about relationship/crushing and seduction more about sex. My question is about attraction/crushing.
So my questions are: 1. Do both the charts seem right/familiar to you personally? For example this chart states that women are at least a tiny little bit attracted to the majority of men (Amused, as called in the chart), is that true to you. etc. 2. What does it take for the opposite gender to get more attracted to you personally? Because attraction can grow and isn't always set at the beginning.
All opinions are valued. Most detailed answer gets MHO. Thanks! :)
I think gender stereotypes are mostly BS, but I think this chart actually reverses with age to the point where the woman seems black and white, the man seems complex.
A young man often either falls completely smitten or not at all. There's no varying levels of attraction, at least not a subtle variety at all. It's like he's madly in love with her or looking at the next girl.
I think the reason is because young men often don't get that much sexual attention naturally. They have to largely pursue it themselves.
Young women get it all the time. There are guys competing for their affection, so they get their pick of the crop. As a result, they have a lot more categories: "This one's definitely a friend, nice guy, this one I might sleep with, this one definitely..."
A young man might be like, "OMG, a young girl who is fairly attractive talked to me! I definitely want to sleep with her! She'll be in my fantasies for the rest of the month!"
Meanwhile, an older man changes suddenly. He becomes financially successful, learns how to charm women, while an older woman often loses favor due to our skewed social standards while many men chase after the young ones. As a result, an older, successful man can start to get a lot of female attention (and may even have to ward off women if they're married) without even trying, and suddenly his categorization of women starts to become very complex, like the young woman.
I imagine this is also true of the young man who looks like Brad Pitt, e. g. Those who get a lot of attention will generally have a more complex categorization of their suitors. Those who don't really typically be a bit more black and white about it.
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Yeah i agree, the more people want you, the more you get to choose indeed. Thanks for your long detailed answer :)
Lol the first thing I saw when I saw that chart was... so true!!! XD Because I have felt a variety of attraction levels for different men. They were some men who I reached up to tempted then went right back to uninterested. I find this quite accurate to be honest at least for me personally :D Sometimes my attraction to certain guys is instantaneous though ;)
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Thanks for your opinion! How did those men go down in attraction for you? (Tempted -> uninterested)
And how to get more attractive according to you, do you know that?
There aren't any magical buttons you can push. I'm attracted to guys who are physically and mentally attractive to me, and you can't mimic those things, you are either that way or not.
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