The guy I want to be with called me naïve and immature and I'm not healthy for him, how should I improve myself?

[Anonymous]

I've never been called immature in my life, I don't know if this insult hurt me or not, but I always want to improve myself for the better

[Jessikaah91]

Ask him how you're immature and nieve and go from there.. but technically you shouldn't really change who you are for anyone not unless you want too.

[TellMe_Whyy]

In fact he is no good for you. I feel like you should suck up your feelings as best as you can and stop seeing him at least until you have learned who you really are, how you want to seen, and treated by everyone not just men. (not saying you are any of those things he called you) Also he could’ve said those things to lower your self esteem to make you feel less than what you are for his own personal reasons and in that that case you should also leave him🫶Best of luck

[noohair]

Guys are simple. We need to hear questions spoken slowly with simple words so there is no ambiguity.

[MacDaddyRico]

You can improve yourself tremendously by losing a bunch of weight... how much does he weigh?

[Jessikaah91]

This is stupid advice, not once did she even mention how much she weighs. And even then if he likes/loves her he isn't going to care either way.

[MacDaddyRico]

@Jessikaah91 The joke went right over your head.
I said how much does HE weigh... I was recommending she lose HIM.

[Asker]

Im skinny already lol😂

[jahaims]

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