How do you feel when the opposite gender says what's most important to them is a personality in the opposite gender?

[Anonymous]

Ladies, gentlemen

Gentlemen, ladies.

[jennifer_bloom]

I don’t care about looks beyond the fact he meets baseline standards but I do care about personality, predictability, lifestyle, employability, understanding, inclusion, mutual value, loyalty, functional acceptance, harmony, common interests, negotiability, fitness, gentleness, positivity, intelligence and cleanliness.

[_piotr]

That is unfortunate for your husband. He will never feel physically attractive to his wife. This is sad for men.

[Anonymous]

If personality is so important than go find the most hideous obese person with the best personality and just live happily ever after.

Sorry, male or female, we all desire a partner we are sexually attracted to. We might not be able to get the 10s we all desire but most of us seem to be happy to settle for average.

I can be around a group of women full of 8s 9s and 10s buy I might develop a crush on the girl who is a 6 or 7. I don't develop crushes based on looks. The most beautiful girl does not automatically become my crush.

It's the essence of the person that makes me develop a crush on her. I don't know what it is exactly. All I know is I'm not developing a crush on any girl I'm not attracted to on some level. I'm also not developing a crush on girls only because they're hot or the hottest.

[paledreams]

I think to myself that line from that Ghost movie lol 😂😆 where he says what a

[paledreams]

Bunch of lies 😃😔😃😔

[paledreams]

Paraphrased to avoid copyright reasons

[alice55]

Most important for serious relationship is always personality but of course you need to be attracted to them at first if not it doesn't work. You might not be their ideals but they would still be attracted to you I think that's what it mean when they say personality first

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to sprinkle some wisdom while we navigate the wild waves of dating! When someone emphasizes that personality tops their list in what they seek in a partner, it's like a melody to my ears! It's a sign they value the essence of a person, the heart, and the mind over just the glitter and glam. It's a green light for genuine connections and deep conversations. This focus on personality paves the way for relationships that are rich, meaningful, and, let's face it, more fun! So, if you hear someone putting personality at the forefront, it might just be the universe nudging you towards a love story where the connection is more than skin deep. 🌟 Keep those vibes positive and let that magnetic personality of yours shine!

[Nikki1989]

That is called reality for most mature people.

[Asker]

When it REALLY IS the person's personality. Not when they just call it that.

[Alli112]

I mean, I'd assume that's a good thing that suggests that they actually care who they spend time with?

[CieloAzul]

I feel nothing, personally is an important thing

[_piotr]

Sad...