Have you ever wanted to cuddle up with someone and not have to have it turn sexual?

sage2021

Master Age: 71

Just feel safe and warm together and forget about the world. Talk a little bit or not. Listen to some good music 🎶 together or just silence.
Enjoying each other's company.
Do you ever do this with someone you care about or love?

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CrazyGirl2 Follow
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Oh my god yes! Lee, my fiancé is pretty good about this. He loves to just cuddle up on the couch and hold me while watching a movie. But my ex… Ugh, the second I would cuddle up to him and get comfortable, his hands would start moving around, then I would feel him getting a hard on, then he’d start wanting to kiss me. I used to be like "can we ever just cuddle FFS without it always turning into sex?”! He was just oblivious to the fact that two human beings can hold each other without it becoming sexual. Sometimes a woman just wants to know if she's loved, and feel it, instead of feeling like we're just a tight, warm moist place for him to ejaculate!

Laura 🤗 🥰

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- sage2021
  
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  @CrazyGirl2
  Yes, everything you said is true.
  That's what inspired me to ask this question 🙂
  
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- CrazyGirl2
  
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  Well it certainly is reassuring to know that the things we sometimes feel are not just in OUR heads, and that other people feel the exact same way, for the exact same reason. 😊
  
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PBandJ_Nerd Follow
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I've never done but I always have viewed cuddling as a non-sexual act. I mean, I personally don't see how it could be a sexual act.

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FunkyMonkee Follow
Master Age: 58

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I don't know about the "not have it turn sexual" part but, yeah.
I LOVE sex but, I have no problem at all with spending the night in a bed with a woman, snuggled up together, even if we're both naked, and still not have it turn into sex. I've done it several times. I'm not interested in forcing myself onto her (whoever she may turn out to be) so, if she doesn't wanna fuck, there's no sex!

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IslaTheWitch Follow
Master Age: 48 , mho 47%

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I like physical closeness with my friends... but cuddles are rather for this one special man... :D

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NathanDavis Follow
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a couple of friends or mine are cuddlers...

they're usually the ones who want to do it though

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Kelly6 Follow
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@sage2021 yes I do that very often to feel comfortable and relaxed and so does he. Cuddle always doesn’t mean sex.
cuddles can calm my nerves and forget about my problems.

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- Kelly6
  
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  @sage2021
  Cuddling shouldn’t only be with husband or boyfriend.
  I do this kind of cuddling also with my elder son.
  
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elizamichale1 Follow
Master Age: 31

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No i wouldn't mind tht actually... but yea i have cuddled which didn't turn into sex

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CaptainSmartass Follow
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Yeah. It'd be nice to just chill, without it turning sexual. Not that I'd "complain" if it did.
Simples...

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RavVid Follow
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I think t is problematical cause the very girls I would like to cuddle with will be very girls I will start having sexual urges for when I am in close contact.

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KrazyCatKit Follow
Xper 4 Age: 31 , mho 32%

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When I’m falling asleep - yep! 🥹

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FreyaRed Follow
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To my younger brother. Now he is too old

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TonyMetal___86 Follow
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These things can only be done with a girlfriend or better with a wife and i don't have any 😏

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- sage2021
  
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  @TonyMetal__86
  I know and me too 😞
  I used to love to cuddle up with Patrick 💔 God I miss him.
  
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- TonyMetal___86
  
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  What can i say miss sage, you're right 😧
  I hope that god make it up easier on you...
  
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Julian7312 Follow
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All the time. Cuddle and talk

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- sage2021
  
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  @Julian7312
  
  Laughing is fun too. My boyfriend and I had some of our best moments of laughter while just cuddling and holding each other 🙂
  
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- Julian7312
  
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  I love it. I've spent afternoons just cuddling and talking and sharing a good laugh with my exes. It's a wonderful feeling to be close with someone you love and holding them in your arms 🙂
  
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LiamS95 Follow
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Yes and I'd like that with you.

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- sage2021
  
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  @LiamS95
  Are you talkin to me?
  Ok 👌 then
  
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- LiamS95
  
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  Yes, I am
  
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MacDaddyRico Follow
Xper 5 Age: 67

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There are actually professional cuddlers... they get paid to cuddle with strangers, no sex.

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- sage2021
  
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  @MacDaddyRico
  How did you find out about them?
  That would look very peculiar on someone's resuné.
  
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- MacDaddyRico
  
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  I'm not sure how I came across them, but I know I couldn't do that job... I'd pop a boner every time.
  www.cuddlecomfort.com/become-a-professional-cuddler
  
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worldscolide Follow
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Like all the time with my wife.

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LaurenM1997 Follow
Yoda Age: 29

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Yes I crave cuddles all the time

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EmmaMary Follow
Master Age: 32 , mho 37%

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Fortunately I can do this with my husband.

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Jennz6 Follow
Master Age: 37

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For sure

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Dongie Follow
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Right now ma'am.

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- sage2021
  
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  @Dongie
  Alright !!!👍
  
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- Dongie
  
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  Uh-huh
  
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Have you ever wanted to cuddle up with someone and not have to have it turn sexual?

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